5 weeks 2 days pregnant, crying for everything

[luv2017]

Ladies ,

Before I go crazy can someone relate to me?? I am constantly crying for everything, I don’t know why I am hurting myself with crying a lot , is this also a symptoms of hormones??? I am scared of what I am doing for my baby . And this is the week the heartbeat has started and am so scared of it . What should I do ?? I am so depressed and didn’t sleep well for 2 days . I miss my parents and feeling so lonely . Being a immigrant is the hardest part when you are pregnant . I am not the person who extends the unpleasant conversation but now oh lord I don’t where I get the energy to fight back and argue and yell a lot . Am so guilty as am not grateful of what I got . I feel like I am so stupid of my behaviour. Can someone advise me please ??

[Major2116]

It could well be your hormones hun. I'm not a crier unless I'm very upset but I've cried at the most silly things.

On the other hand I do suffer with depression and anxiety since losing our 2 babies. I have low days where I just cry and don't want to do anything. Things like if I burn our food, I'll get upset and cry thinking how will I feed our son if I can't even cook tea n go on a downward spiral.

Have you got anyone you can confide in? Partner/friend? Have you ever felt like this before? Xx

[luv2017 in reply to Major2116]

I don’t have any relative or friends here . I just have colleagues , they will care when I am at office . I just have my husband . No I am not like that , I am so cool person and hate bad conversations . But now I am getting angry like anything . My sister who is pregnant for 32 weeks ,I am shouting at her as she repeated the same question. Poor girl and I felt so bad after that . Am never be like this , I don’t shout or yell at anyone but now I feel like I want to shout at everyone and started crying immediately. I am not comfortable and feel like so different. I don’t know what to do . It’s just driving me crazy. I think the fear of first trimester is making me so bad. I am really scared of my first 7th week scan too ..

[Major2116 in reply to luv2017]

Bless ya hun. There are also forums like this or maybe try pregnancy groups in your area so you can meet people in the same situation as you.

It could be your hormones hun. The fact that you're pregnant and away from your family can be really stressful. Being pregnant is nerve wracking enough. If you don't feel like your emotions are any better than maybe see you GP? Stress isn't good for you or your baby so they may be able so make suggestions on how to help.

Wishing you all the best xx

[Munyze]

Hello! Congratulations on your pregnancy! I can relate with you, I'm also an immigrant and I have no family or friends in here as well... during my pregnancy I would cry just for seeing a puppy or a baby with someone... I was always worried about the baby... it's hard specially after hearing the heartbeat because you can't be always listening to it so you wonder if it's still there... the body goes for so much changes that we can't be happy all the time... I'm now a very happy mommy of a 7 months old and all that happened is behind now...

I do hope you can relax and enjoy your pregnancy and be a very happy mommy...

Search for parent groups in your region, you can talk with people without being judge because they are or where there at least once...

Best for all of you

[luv2017 in reply to Munyze]

Thanks so much for nice reply . I just miss being in India and pampered from everyone . I am definitely not jealous , my sister was very happy and tons of people were all around here and she was treated like a queen . So I miss that and that thinking is horrible. I should get back to the reality and be grateful to god . I think I should get used of this loneliness and stand for myself . I am not so good with my in laws and it’s been 10 days since I told I am pregnant and they don’t even bother me to check back how I am doing .. people are so rude and seeing these kind of people in our own family is even more sick. I should learn to deal and make myself engaging. Thanks for that .