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Hello, Im 18 years old and i just literally found out im pregnant 2 hours ago, im scared, iv been crying all morning and afternoon. Im so scared but i dont believe in abortion, im supposed to be going to uni in september and im currently working as a carer. My boyfriend is 27 of 8 months and we werent even planning for a baby. Im on the pill and i still got pregnant i dont know what to do i feel sick to my stomach, please help

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Hello, could you contact your local family planning and sexual health clinic, they could provide some support and point you in the right direction. You could also visit your gp who could organise some counseling to help you make the right decision. The best thing is to find the support you need whether through family, friends or health professionals as you don't want to look back on this time and feel regretful, you need to make the right decision for yourself and of course for your future. It could be that you have the baby but with the right support you could also study or you might consider adoption. The key thing is to find the support you need to help you decide what's best for you rather than being pressured into a decision based on what others want. If you can, try to talk to your boyfriend to get his perspective on things too. Good luck, I can imagine it's a very daunting time x

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N-gulavic in reply to Patrilui

Thank you so much and it is x

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Thingandgeorge

Please see your GP who should refer you for counselling to help you make the right decision.

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Thank you x

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