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Hey... advice needed please. Iv just had a miscarriage how can I get over this and will it stop me from getting pregnant again. X

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So sorry to hear yr news. Ive suffered two before I had my little girl so there is light at end of tunnel. You need to give yrself time to grieve and yr body time to recover and I know its a horrible awful time but you will get thru this. I wish you and yr partner lots of love and luck for the future xx

For any woman who has gone through a miscarrige "at any stage in pregnancy" is devestating. The best "& probably the only thing" to remember is that as long as you are healthy, sexually active "regularally" & in a good relationship you can try again. Im no doctor/ nurse or anything but as far as i know if you've successfully being able to concieve a baby at some point there's no reason for this not to happen again.

Stay positive & get busy with your partner / husband. :-)

I also like to believe that if you have sadly miscarried recently, it can only make your body stronger for the next time you concieve.

xx

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ashy2005

sorry to hear this :( I hope you have good support around you to help you through. I had two miscarriages quite close together and was so scared to try again, i left it for 2 years and im now pregnant again and due on wednesday so there is every chance of you having a successful pregnancy next time. Look after yourself and good luck xoxo

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missklt

I no im devestated. My partner is my rock at the moment not quite sunk in. I feel like iv done thing's wrong. Is it normal to feel like this xx

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unsure404x

I miscarried last week was and still am very unsure how I should feel...I was only 4-5 weeks I'm try to think positive that it happened for a reason and there must of been something wrong with baby and could I of coped with this...now I'm worriedit will happen again don't really want my hubby touching me sexually until I no everything is ok but he doesn't get it....he wants to try again now.

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missklt in reply tounsure404x

I no what you mean hun... I feel im blaming myself and he wants to try again but I darent I dont want to go through this again xx

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laukb87

Sorry to hear your sad news. Please don't feel guilty as there Is nothing you could have done. I have also had 2 miscarriages and am now pregnant. I am a firm believer that it will happen when the time is right. Make sure you talk through your feelings as bottling it up will only make you feel worse. Take care of yourself xx

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missklt

It doesnt seem right was only last week I saw baby on scan and now I dont have it :'( xx

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gigglysheep

its an awful time and I'm so sorry for your loss. I miscarried at 5weeks a few months ago and felt like i would never get to have my dream family. I drank heavily for a little while and felt uncomfortable with my fella. Once I got my period back, we started having sex again but werent overly trying to get pregnant and boom, I fell pregnant in that first month. I'm now 8weeks + 1 and had my booking appointment yesterday.

I know it might not feel it right now but u will get through and the tears will stop. Once you get back on the horse u may find that you are more fertile than ever (kind of like pringles, once u pop u cant stop). Hopefully, ull feel better soon and more positive x

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