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Good morning everyone,

I’ve had this article for a while. I pulled it up yesterday and reread it and found it applies so much now in dealing with chronic illness, isolation, aging and pandemics. I’m happy to share it and hope it helps some in coping with change. All the best/fm

resilience.org/stories/2011...

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DorsetLadyPMRGCAuk volunteer

Actually I think those of us who have always lived in a rural environment- albeit with some forays into a slightly more urban environment - although not big conurbations (apart from the odd day or week) probably are coping better with the current crisis.

We do understand that in the main Mother Nature is in control, we try and manipulate her sometimes, but she eventually gets her own way. We see her in her good and bad times on a daily basis, we learn to live with her not against her. Maybe not as successfully as the Navajo, but certainly better than those in a truly urban society.

We may have water, electricity, broadband on tap, but we don’t have 24 hour shops, bars, coffee shop etc. We actually have to wait for things.......it’s not all at hand 24/7. We don’t live our lives at 100 miles an hour.

For youngsters that may be boring, but surprisingly, or maybe not, once they’ve had their time in the hedonistic days of the city’s bright lights they invariably return to a calmer life!

We will get through this, but some better than others.

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fmkkm in reply to DorsetLady

I agree! I have lived all over including a remote wilderness ranger station in the southwest US. I live semi urban now and sometimes float back to those remote times. I would pick country any day. You are blessed.

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Yellowbluebell in reply to DorsetLady

I am used to living in more rural areas and tbh I am finding this isolation quite enjoyable. Some of it may be because I am anti social normally. My only complaint is I didnt get compost for my garden before lock down and old pallets for husband to recycle into planters. I am relatively easy to please.🤣😇

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fmkkm in reply to Yellowbluebell

My husband is obsessed with old pallets!

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Yellowbluebell in reply to fmkkm

I originally saw garden furniture made from pallets in pinterest and suggested OHn made me some. Luckily youngest daughter boyfriend can get them free. X YBB

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DorsetLadyPMRGCAuk volunteer in reply to Yellowbluebell

Oh yes..tell me about the compost....was going to get some the day before lockdown came into force..and blithely thought ‘oh I’ll leave that ‘til tomorrow!’

Have some on order online.

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I liked this:

"Nothing in the world

is as soft and yielding as water.

Yet for dissolving the hard and inflexible,

nothing can surpass it.

The soft overcomes the hard;

the gentle overcomes the rigid.

Everyone knows this is true,

but few can put it into practice."

We had a practice here last November when we had a massive dump of snow that cut electricity for some for up to a week, roads were blocked again and again by fallen trees and shops ran out of diesel for generators and deepfreezers thawed out.

That frozen water caused a massive effect.

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fmkkm in reply to PMRpro

A week without electricity would not be much fun!!

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to fmkkm

The part of the village that had that was unreachable by road because of trees but most of the people up there have wood burning stoves that both heat and cook. Lighting must have been interesting. We were only off for a total of 30 hours and had a few hours respite, long enough to charge the computers! Phones were off because the network was overloaded and landlines down. But I had candles to hand - had them for about 20+ years but they still worked ;) And we had heating from the wood burner - mine doesn't really do for cooking except jacket potatoes in a tiny oven.

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Our electric outages are sporadic and don’t usually last long, but the best thing for lighting for me is an ancient kerosene lamp. It’s from the farm where I spent my teen years. 😁 🤗

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Noosat in reply to PMRpro

If you can get some garden solar lights and some sunshine, you can bring them in the house at night, stand in a jar and voila! there is light.

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That's a great tip.

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Noosat in reply to

If you use small lights you can cluster them. They also make a nice soft light

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Constance13 in reply to Noosat

Do solar lights work through a window? Bit thick concerning things like that.🤭

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Yes they would charge in principle I think.

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PMRproAmbassador in reply to Noosat

At the point we'd have needed them it was snowing all day for several days - I doubt the solar lights would have charged!!!