Can women go onto live long lives with O.C? is it best not to get O.C back the first time for as long as possible? because then when it does come back it becomes much harder to treat for everytime it comes back, is it always just about shrinking the tumor or can it be succesfully treated and you can have long spells of remisson i.e years in between each treatment?, is their plenty on offer for treatments to work succesfully?, or does the treatments just come to a complete stop, when your body can no long tolarate it, do different stages have better out looks? sorry its such a loaded question!!