I don't have rheumatoid arthritis myself but I do have psoriatic arthritis.
Have you mentioned to your GP about your family history? Especially your son? As there is a genetic link with PSA and you can sometimes develop the arthritis without the skin condition. Also PSA rarely shows in bloods. Mine didn't and the GP used that as a reason not to refer me to rheumatology.
After 4 years of fighting with my GP surgery I had to pay privately in the the end and was diagnosed within 30 minutes. It was money well spent but I shouldn't have had too.
The rheumatologist I saw privately looked at my previous GP notes, he also took into account a mri I had a year previously (under my GP) and I had a lot of bone marrow odemea, tenosynovitis ect in my feet.
He also physically examined me, I have the skin condition of psoriasis too, so that was easy to spot 😆, I had severe nail psoriasis also and Dactylitis plus alot of swelling. By the time I went private it had already spread to both my hands which I wasn't aware of but he noticed it instantly.
He referred me back to the nhs as urgent and under his care and 3 weeks later I saw him in my local hospital and was put on a treatment plan.
It can be hard as we get older some aches and pains are part of ageing. I know at 71 then I'm not as flexable as I was at 61 despite my RA being in medical remission. It is the case you can be zero negative and have RA and sero positive and not have it. So have you had any blood tests to test if your aches and pains are down to thyroid issues, anaemia, etc. It might be worth asking about other conditions which can cause problems and if you get negative results then look to getting your GP to refer you to a Rheumatologist. It's so easy to think all ills are down to RA but sometimes it can be just coincidence. I'd urge you to read up on the NRAS website and also NHS pages to see the diagnosis pathway and treatments. I'd not go private until my GP had checked on all the other things which it could be before paying out and don't forget that some medications are not available privately and can only be accessed and monitored by the NHS. Private is great for diagnosis ( I did that as had insurance from employment) and it might get a queue pass for treatment but in reality the NHS is generally good or at least it is here in seeing patients and accessing treatments. Although I must add sometimes it takes a fair amount of time and a good measure of patience is needed, x
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