People. can I remind you of the guidelines on hu which include treating others with respect, & not to judge.
"Your participation in the site should be with respect, honesty and in the spirit of supporting and learning from your fellow users."
We are all on this site because we all share an awful condition and are here to support each other, share information, share our fears & worries and what has helped us.
When someone replies to another it is a step forward in trust.
We need to remember that we all have feelings.