Ok forum peeps, I've reached a trigger for my smoking.
I had my appraisal at work last week, I don't get on with my manager. He's made a written comment about the way I speak to others in the office outside my team, it looks bad, like I'm some kindof batty looney tune.
I've spoken privately with a number of work colleagues in the office who say this is nonesense. I have relayed this back to my manager and now we are in a stupid playground spat and he refuses to omit the comment.
I now want to drag him across the table and punch is face into the middle of next week, I'm so angry :mad: I know I cant do this, in the past I would end up outside chain smoking, I want to do it right now but know it wont solve anything. I've informally alerted HR that there is another problem between us(Last year was similar).
I'm not looking for advice on how to handle my manager and I know smoking wont help but its close, closer than its ever been.
I think I'm just ranting away on here to let off steam. I have someone here at work I can talk to privately but he's really busy (who isnt?) and I suspect he's getting a bit pig sick of me yak yak yaking on about my manager being such a "C U Next Tuesday"