jlbuss i think i know what you mean i feel my husband is saying things i want to hear do you know what i mean ,it is like walking on egg shells i think he is agreeing with me so i dont get mad or upset and the first thing i would head for was to the shops for some fags,hope this helped pat
My boyfriend still smokes, although not as much as i ever did! I felt a major lack of support from him at the start because he didnt think i was capable!!
Now i find myself very short tempered a lot of the time, i can be very moody!! Im trying to stay very busy, so i enjoy cleaning and cooking because its a distraction, yet i get angry with him because "IM CLEANING.... AGAIN"!! i know how silly it is!
In my case i know its me, we have a very good relationship, but i do think he is getting a little impatient with my moods, and he always asks why im so angry with him! I cant reply! I just dont know right now!
Maybe she is feeling a little jelous because u have quit! And perhaps she wants too, but is taking her feelings out on you! And perhaps she didnt think you could come so far!
I hope it works out for you! It could be a mix of both your feelings and hers and obviously your gonna change because your stopping smoking.
Keep up the good work.... (im day 7, really proud)
I think this could well be just the way you're both reacting to your quit, you both have to get used to a new you after all, but you can both adjust to it, you just have to be patient with each other
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