Ebt girl back to square one

My boyfriend waited until i was 6 days in to my quit then dumped me yesterday...... need i say more....:(

TRENDY and HOPEFUL AND ALL THE REST OF YOU I NEED YOUR SUPPORT.... Im having today to feel sorry for myself and Im back on the wagon tomorrow...just feel like hell today :(

NOT BEING STRONG LIKE THE ENGLISH BULL TERRIER TODAY

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  • Hi E B T Girl :D

    I am so sorry this has happened and no you needn't say more what an arse hole

    But at least now you know you can do it don't you after all it was almost a week I think this time

    Take your day to feel sorry for yourself and then restart secure in the knowledge that you have the support of all of us for as long as you need us

    Love

    Marg xxxxxxxxxx

  • So Sorry hun

    Just posted on your other thread then read this. Not for me to say but maybe you will be better off with out him. Start fresh tomorrow hun and im sure it will not be as hard as last week. We are here for you no matter what.xxxxxxxxxx

  • U can do it....

    Come on dust yourself down and start again, U can do it, u have proved that..... Just carry on where u left off... U will do it this time because u are determined.....:p Kaz

  • Thats rubbish EBT. But you can be strong. As the others said, take some time to get your head sorted then climb back on the wagon. xxxx

  • Don't worry, were all still here for you. It happens, I should know. How many slips have I had and I'm still only on wk 2.

    I know you can do it. Tomorrow is a new day and you will feel so proud of yourself if you can overcome this. Every attempt will make you stronger and stronger. Just don't quit quitting.

    Be strong EBT and do it with me.

    Toblerone never let you down! Who needs men!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Cheer up and thanks for your honesty.

    Be strong. Death to the :eek:'s

    Hopeful x

  • Don't worry, were all still here for you. It happens, I should know. How many slips have I had and I'm still only on wk 2.

    I know you can do it. Tomorrow is a new day and you will feel so proud of yourself if you can overcome this. Every attempt will make you stronger and stronger. Just don't quit quitting.

    Be strong EBT and do it with me.

    Toblerone never let you down! Who needs men!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Cheer up and thanks for your honesty.

    Be strong. Death to the :eek:'s

    Hopeful x

    Im back with you HOPEFUL

    FEELING STRONGER LIKE THE ENGLISH BULL TERRIER

    EBT GIRL

    ;)

  • Hey EBTgirl sorry ive not been on much today just read your post. So sorry you have had to go through this, but it will make you stronger. I will be here for you when you are ready X

  • too many quits to mention2

    i must b on attempt number 672! and this time its goin 2 work-the nxt time u try mite b th one 4 u-

    never giv up given up dude-u only hav to b successful once!

  • is smokn as deep as that?

    quote-"Are people smoking because they feel guilty about something and this is the way to subconsciously punish themselves because they know smoking is bad in every sense of the word and if they feel they are bad and no good and not worth much - THEN THEY SHOULD SMOKE to satisfy this subconscious uncontrollable thought that has been implanted a long time ago whether you know it or not."

    I agree with a lot of wat u say dude but i dont think smokin is as ingrained or subcoscious or deep as wat u say-ur either addictd 2 nicotine or ur not-and i am-altho this is near th end of my 2nd day free-

    if it was about bein bad to myself ther r far more powerful drugs than nicotine-

    keep the posts cumen-u got my interest dude!

  • quote-

    I agree with a lot of wat u say dude but i dont think smokin is as ingrained or subcoscious or deep as wat u say-ur either addictd 2 nicotine or ur not-and i am

    Believe it...... if it was JUST about being addicted to nicotine, most of us would have an easy time of quitting.... I mean really, who would care about the couple of weeks of physical withdrawal.... it's nothing..... it is the subconscious and conscious mind battle that makes people fall apart. So much is about really believing you want to quit.... and changing the way you think and really learning about this addiction.

  • Believe it...... if it was JUST about being addicted to nicotine, most of us would have an easy time of quitting.... I mean really, who would care about the couple of weeks of physical withdrawal.... it's nothing..... it is the subconscious and conscious mind battle that makes people fall apart. So much is about really believing you want to quit.... and changing the way you think and really learning about this addiction.

    I think you just hit the proverbial squarely on the head. i49.photobucket.com/albums/...

  • My boyfriend waited until i was 6 days in to my quit then dumped me yesterday...... need i say more....:(

    TRENDY and HOPEFUL AND ALL THE REST OF YOU I NEED YOUR SUPPORT.... Im having today to feel sorry for myself and Im back on the wagon tomorrow...just feel like hell today :(

    NOT BEING STRONG LIKE THE ENGLISH BULL TERRIER TODAY

    :(

    I hope you aren't crying, sweety (<- I can say that, i'm much older than you)

    It seems like this bloke cared #$@% all about you otherwise he would have understood what you're going through and waited for a better time (i.e. when you feel a bit more secure)

    I've just failed again myself but I'm not as strong as you to jump on the wagon straight on again.

  • ..... it is the subconscious and conscious mind battle that makes people fall apart. So much is about really believing you want to quit.... and changing the way you think and really learning about this addiction.

    That is what has got me both times I quit last month, hoping that I can win the battle in my head this time as that had to be the worst, most draining experience.

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