I found this on another site and I could relate to what she said.I hope it gives some inspiration if you are just starting your quit or thinking of quitting.
I am just amazed! Amazed at me! Amazed I came this far! I can't believe I'm actually a WINNER!
Last year was the worst for me, but I quit. Then my year got even more horrible and I stayed quit. Then my health went crazy, but I still stayed quit. I felt like I was on the side of a mountain, and when I got up near the top, I'd tumble down again. I'd get up and head back up that mountain, determined to make it over the top.
Well, I made it over the top and I'm sliding down the other side, laughing and smiling because it isn't bumpy on this side of the mountain. It's a slide to a better lifestyle, better health, a happier me.
I can't even describe my happiness. It's hard to put it into words, but I am not as grouchy or as touchy as I was before I quit or even in those first few months of my quit. I am a much easier-going person today.
For example: I got on the plane to come home. I sat in my seat but didn't buckle up yet because I had an aisle seat and knew I would have to get up two more times. Well, I ended up getting up about 6 to 8 times because people picked the wrong seats. One woman had a dog and she had a hard time getting the poor thing out from under the seat when the person who really was supposed to sit there came in. I told her to take her time and not rush when she was trying to get the dog out from under the seat; that everything was okay. The woman sitting across from me looked at me afterwards and said that I had such a wonderful attitude - most people would have been very upset by now. 11 months ago I would have been huffing and puffing, tapping my foot, and tisk-tisking at the whole chain of events, but not anymore. Life is good.
I've changed my whole lifestyle in the past 11 months. Quitting smoking, working out, losing weight, and now heading down a new path back to vegetarianism, which may take me a bit to get totally back on, but I have gone organic when I can and definitely all natural in my foods. I think I look better, and I sure as heck feel a lot better these days. I can even walk up 3 flights of stairs and not get winded.
It is absolutely amazing how your whole outlook on life changes when you quit smoking. Your self-esteem gets so much better and you want to take those feelings and do other healthier things for yourself. Once you get out of one bad habit, it seems you want to keep going and break other bad habits. At least it has worked that way for me.
To all the newbies, just hang in there. This is so doable. It is very hard -I won't lie to you. You will rant, rave, cry, and throw temper tantrums. You'll try to rationalize why you should smoke and that you can have just one. You will be tired and angry for awhile. But you will be quit! That is the main thing. It gets so much better.
Yes, I still have a bad moment every so often, but it passes quickly now. I have the education I need for continued success in my WIN. I know those feelings will pass. I know about the triggers, the craves and the urges, and how to get around them. Educate yourself. You owe it to YOU, to your quit and to your loved ones. Read, read, read as much as you can on this horrible addiction and especially junkie thinking.
And to all those who have gone before me, my new-found friends, my mentors, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have helped me through some of the worst times in my life. I owe my quit to all of you, for without you I could not have gone this far. I love you all!
I wrote a poem dedicated to my forumily just for my 11th month:
A New Sense of Pride
The sun rises
As my day begins.
Revitalized, I meander
With emotions of
Happy and content
I am able to cry,
Yet prepared to laugh.
Spirits high and proud,
I take each day
as it is predestined.
How full of life
I have become!
Awakening a rebirth of thoughts
Passionate and vivacious,
Resurrected in love of self
I have found a new inner strength.
On the edge of dreams
But still in reality,
I will walk forever
With a new sense of pride!