advice please

ok i have had just about enough ever since i said i am quiting it has been not stop crap. i have had everything from debt people calling me for money to find out it was a mistake :mad: right up to not getting my shopping the gave me someones elses :eek:

now to top it off been arguing with hubby now i dont no if thats coz we are more stressed or if he really is a git lol :D

but im sooooooooooooooooooo close right now i can taste them

any advice welcome

jill

p.s i am on day 4 dont no y i posted in here its cos im bloody angry lol

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  • Hi jill

    DONT do it.

    All that would mean was that the shit would still be happening but you were now smoking.

    the fags will NOT make the situation any better or worse they will just make you a smelly smoker. :)

    oh and your hubby is a git!!!! :eek::D

    should we start a poll, is Gonnaquits hubby a git yes or no?:D

    lol that alone has really cheared me up thanks and my vote is a yes lol

    cheers

  • Aaaarghhhh

    Don't do it Jill...

    Tiptoe back from the brink.

    These sound like the homicidal ravings of a person in withdrawal, I have to say...Breath deeply,,,drink water...fun about ( how funny, I meant to write 'run about' !!!)...shout a bit...Get it out. There's no way to go round this, you've just got to go through it...but only once!

    Keep posting!

    Bill X

  • Gill, deep breaths! Please!!!!!

    A cigarette will NOT make all the crap better. In fact, it will make everything ten times worse - you'll feel so bad about smoking, and the crap WILL STILL BE THERE!!!!

    I vote you Kick the Git until you get it all out of your system! :D

  • Gonnaquit, kick the git. Stupid man putting you under pressure at this time, kick the git and youll feel much better. forget the nic stick you dont need it. :D

  • Hya

    Don't do it, drink a pint of water, breathe deeply anything but have a ciggie. We all now how you are feeling and some of us have blipped and deeply regretted it. Day 3 and 4 are definately the worse days, you will definately notice a difference in yourself tomorrow and for then after.

    Good luck, keep us posted.

  • thanks

    thanks guys i have not had a cig and consider the git kicked lol we are ok now he is quiting aswell and didnt put hes patch on so i think that may have had something to do with it but hes still a git lol

    i can hear day 5 calling me now :D i will stay strong

    you know over the last couple of days i have really noticed that i have been doing things around the cigs do a litlle house work have fag, bath baby quick want to get downstairs and have fag ect ect.

    i would plan my day round my fags how sad is that :confused:

    i really dont want to go back to that thanks to all

    jill

  • hey jill

    we have all been sad gits deserving of a kick when it comes to cigs - luckily we also all found this site to let off steam on - keep it coming, it really will help (havin fag in stressy moment wont tho) :D

  • thanks guys i have not had a cig and consider the git kicked lol we are ok now he is quiting aswell and didnt put hes patch on so i think that may have had something to do with it but hes still a git lol

    i can hear day 5 calling me now :D i will stay strong

    you know over the last couple of days i have really noticed that i have been doing things around the cigs do a litlle house work have fag, bath baby quick want to get downstairs and have fag ect ect.

    i would plan my day round my fags how sad is that :confused:

    i really dont want to go back to that thanks to all

    jill

    I really noticed how I would plan my day around smoking but now I hardly think about the smoke times anymore. God when i think about it i couldn't even go to the toilet or make a cup of coffee or put the bloody bin out without lighting up! LMAO at it now but it was really sad.

    Trust me, this feeling will go and all of a sudden you'll realise that you've done something without smoking or thinking about it and it happens sooner than you think ;)

  • Hoi you LOT! :mad:

    Bloody women!!

    I wish i hadn't said kick the git now.. The poor guy probably did nothing wrong.

    You lot are a bunch of grumpy ******'s

    Chucking fags and probably all menopausal too. :eek:

    No wonder you are all so grumpy...;)

    MEN ROOL!!!!!

    and us poor guys bearing the brunt of your moaning and groaning (and NOT in a good way)

    * John runs like mad to escape the angry mob of women*:D

    lol well you started it and as for menopausal i bloody hope not im only 26 lol

    and we aint gonna run after you and let you live out some weird fantesy of yours although if i were single pmsl

    we will stop kicking him now if you like hehehe

  • lol well you started it and as for menopausal i bloody hope not im only 26 lol

    and we aint gonna run after you and let you live out some weird fantesy of yours although if i were single pmsl

    we will stop kicking him now if you like hehehe

    LOL!! You got JumboJohnny sussed already then gonnaquit! heheh

  • ok i have had just about enough ever since i said i am quiting it has been not stop crap. i have had everything from debt people calling me for money to find out it was a mistake :mad: right up to not getting my shopping the gave me someones elses :eek:

    now to top it off been arguing with hubby now i dont no if thats coz we are more stressed or if he really is a git lol :D

    but im sooooooooooooooooooo close right now i can taste them

    any advice welcome

    jill

    p.s i am on day 4 dont no y i posted in here its cos im bloody angry lol

    I was feeling the same sort of way last night after arguing with my partner went for a 20min power walk got the stress out off me and the craving for a fag had gone

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