Anyone give me any success stories after a miscarriage? I’m totally heartbroken
Miscarriage : Anyone give me any success stories after a... - NCT
Thanks for the reply, I know I just can’t believe it the minute you see the 2 lines on the pregnancy test u have there whole life worked out. Mines is a missed miscarriage aswel. Had another scan today and the sac and wee baby is still there. I’m starting to bleed quite heavy now. If you don’t mind me asking did you do it naturally my dr advised to clear everything in my uterus under anaesthetic xxx
Hi pinky sorry you are going through this. I have been told my scan ok on 12th march is unlikely to have heart beat because of my HCG levels not rising and gestational sack being small on my 5wks 6 day scan.. me and my husband decided too transfer 2 blastocysts so if you got embryos left over maybe you could do that?
Hi my first pregnancy was a missed miscarriage, found out at the 12 weeks scan. I'd had some brown discharge but nothing much and I had put it down to other things.
I had the surgical management as I didn't want to go through the natural route because I felt like if my body didn't know I wasn't pregnant already then I didn't want to wait for it to figure it out, if that makes sense? After the initial heartbreak, I tried to see it as a positive that at least I could get pregnant and that I only needed 2 more miscarriages till I could get help with getting pregnant on the nhs crazy how your brain works sometimes, but that's what got me through.
I waited till my first period after the operation and then started trying again, I fell pregnant quite quickly afterwards and my little girl is now 7 months old. I was petrified that the same would happen again but scan after scan she kept growing and growing.
Sending you lots of love and hope at this sad time for you, best wishes xxx
Sorry to hear about your loss. Its a massive shock to the system, especially when you have no signs that anything is amiss!
I also had a MMC, right before our wedding. I went for the surgery route, 2 days before getting married!
Id recommend surgery if you can, rather than the tablets as I had two rounds of the tablets and neither worked for me.
Feel free to message if you want to chat xx
I suffered for months with depression after my miscarriage, I cried myself to sleep every night. We decided to hold off trying again straight away, the first pregnancy was an accident and we weren’t married we waited til we were married the second time. We conceived on our honeymoon and have had such a smoooth pregnancy this time! I’m now 30 weeks with our little girl. Stay strong and don’t push your partner away- keep talking. Good luck xxx
So sorry about your news. I had a missed miscarriage last year and let it happen naturally it was awful at the time. We are now 7 months pregnant again and willing baby to hang until 34 weeks as she’s desperate to come out and meet everything!
It does take time to get over (I’m still not over it) give yourself time and I found talking about it really helped too xx
I had a miscarriage in october at 11 weeks. I was soo heartbroken as it was a week before our 12 week scan. I am now pregnant again and I'm 6 weeks. I do think its important to let your body and mind heal. It was for me anyway! I didn't process and pushed everything down and it all came to a head in January when I finally let all the emotions out. I think, however your feeling is ok.x
I'm so sorry Pinky1245.
We had a miscarriage in August 2018, I was about 6 weeks pregnant. We were totally devastated. We decided we wanted to try again as soon as possible, and waited for my period to return. After about 6 weeks and still no period I did a pregnancy test...it was positive. My little one is now 10 months tomorrow. There is always light at the end of the tunnel. Big hugs xx
Hi. So sorry that you are going through this. I have had two missed miscarriages and one ‘natural’ miscarriage. A horrible thing to go through, I struggled most with the missed miscarriages as I felt my body had let me down and not given me a sign. But I am now 19 weeks pregnant with a little boy. Take time to grieve and allow yourself to cry. Remember it wasn’t your fault xxx
Hey lovely I’m sorry to hear about your miscarriage!
When I was 20 I got pregnant and it wasn’t planned but we loved them anyways and was really excited! I had a delayed miscarriage and lost them at 11 weeks. That was in May 2018 4 months later I got pregnant again. This time planned and we had a beautiful baby girl called Athen who will be 2 years old in June! And I just another baby, a little boy we called Arlo he is currently 3 months old. I believe that without loosing our first baby we wouldn’t have gotten our little family that we have today. It’s heartbreaking and I think about them all the time. Why would they be like? But I cannot change the past and I’m great full for the babies I have today. Beat of luck and never lose hope!
All my love 🥰
Oh Pinky how crap!!! So sorry you're going through this, it's never easy. We had a surprise pregnancy when my youngest was only 5 months old so I came here for advice on what to do and I definitely didn't think I was ready for another one. But I embraced it and started getting all ready and planning and was really excited, but then I started to.bleed at 11 weeks pregnant just before my scan, I was absolutely heartbroken. But I believe it wasnt the right time. This was in September 2018, and i'm now 28 weeks with my 1st boy after 3 girls. And the timing is so much better for us. Have faith and believe everything happens for a reason (I know that's hard to believe right now) but just imagine, there will come a time in the future when you're holding your newborn in your arms and you'll just know that everything shit that happened, had to happen to bring you to that absolutely perfect moment. And you wouldn't change a thing ❤ were made of super tough stuff, so just take each day as it comes and keep looking ahead xx
I'm so sorry about what you are going through. We had a MMC with our first pregnancy, we lost our twins, and passed them naturally. For me once I started bleeding and cramping it didn't take long. Our second pregnancy came a year and a half later and he is a happy healthy seven month old now. There is no reason to believe you won't have a rainbow, but for now allow yourself to grieve, and to heal x
Hi pinky sorry for what your going through, I had an eptopic pregnacy in September I had to have the shot to stop my pregnacy, the process off me finding out to actually having the shot was 2 weeks which felt longer, I passed naturally, was told I can’t try again for 3 month because off how powerful the drug was, thoughts are with you stay strong 😇😇 It took me 13 years to conceive as we didn’t use anything for that long but 3 months passed so will just have to see👼
So sorry for your loss but there is hope, you just have to keep trying when you are physically, mentally and emotionally ready to do so.
Some days are harder than others but with time you learn how to cope, take all the time you need to mourn your pregnancy and baby.
2010 I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks
2011 a stillbirth at 26 weeks.
5 years later and with a new partner
2016 a miscarriage at 6w+2d
2018 at 7w
I was ready to stop trying as it was just too much for me to deal with, but my godmother encouraged me to try once more then I got pregnant at the end of 2018 and had a very successful pregnancy with no pregnancy symptoms throughout, no concerns with baby or the pregnancy (except the concerns of my previous losses so I had extra scans and obstetrics appointments), now my rainbow little boy is 9 months.
Just to let you know (as I didn’t find out till my 6th loss) that if you have 2 consecutive miscarriage then your doctor is supposed to refer you to the Reoccurring Miscarriage Clinic or you can do a self referral.
Most hospitals have one.
Virtual hugs to you and if you ever need to talk please don’t hesitate to inbox me xx