Firstly i suffer from endometriosis and this is my first pregnancy. I went for my "12 week" dating scan on 6th January was very excited. She did a ultra sound, but was unable to see anything so the internal scan was done. She asked me when my LMP was which i was 100% being 11th october 2016, So that would make me 12 weeks and 3 days. She said then that it wasn't looking too good, as the sac measured a sac at around 5-6 weeks. And again was questions if my periods are regular and how sure was i with the dates. Then waited 45 minutes to see the gyno.. who went through some things that may have gone wrong and then waited a further 40 minutes to see the midwife to arrange another scan in 10 days time. She also explained to me what could have happened, the baby wasn't actually formed (when the sperm and egg meet and do its thing something must have gone wrong at this stage and nothing was formed). What i am finding it hard to accept is that I am still having all the pregnancy symptoms. Since my scan on 6th Jan i have been feeling sore and back pain has increased. But this is probably due to the internal scan. Also been getting some brown discharge which today (9th Jan) has become a bit darker (Like what you get towards the end of a period). So right now i can only hope, i know the scan on the 16th Jan isn't going to be good. Has anyone experienced this? I read a few posts in the group and its really helped.
Feeling very low - support and advice would be much ap... - NCT
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