I've just started my 9th cycle since the ectopic in May last year, when I lost my right tube. We've been trying for our first baby for nearly two years now. I had an early miscarriage not long before the ectopic. I'm 38 this year and I thought we would have a toddler by now. Starting to think it may never happen. Everyone around us has children now and keeps,asking when we will. I'm finding it incredibly difficult to deal with. Has anyone else lost a tube, nd how long did it take for you to conceive afterwards?