I really need advice..my LO arrived 3 days ago which has been an amazing experience. I can deal with the lack of sleep and hard work...but I am finding it excruciating to pee. I have tried the warm jug of water....and got most of it on the floor....I've tried a warm compress with lavender oil whilst peeing....even sitting in the bath with lavender oil and going is still uncomfortable. Plus I don't have time to run a bath everytime I need to go nor is it practical. I'm drinking loads of water to try and dilute it but I'm getting close to going to the docs and begging for a catheter. Does anyone have any other tips? My tear was a grade 1 and didn't require stitches...so it's effectively an open wound.