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What You Need to Discuss With Your Doctor

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If you are living with serious illness or are simply planning ahead for your own or a loved one’s future, having a frank discussion with your doctor is a good idea.

Puttinng things into words, getting more information, and asking questions can help you get the kind of care you want.

Listed below are some of the question you should ask your doctor to be sure you understand the terms and what the implications are:


•What is meant by artificial nutrition and hydration (ANH)?

•When is it needed?

•Is artificial nutrition and hydration effective?

•Is there a standard of care for the use of ANH in patients with irreversible or terminal illness?

•If I or a loved one does not have terminal cancer but instead has dementia (Alzheimer’s) or some other brain injury leading to swallowing problems, will ANH help?

•What if I or my loved one doesn’t have dementia or cancer but is just frail, elderly, has trouble swallowing and lives in a nursing home? Will placing a “feeding tube” help?

•Even if I or a loved one has dementia, cancer, or some other terminal or irreversible condition, doesn’t nutrition and hydration make the patient feel better? Won’t I or my loved one be hungry and thirsty?

•Will I or my loved one suffer if adequate nutrition and fluids aren’t provided?

•Is artificial nutrition and hydration ever helpful for terminally or irreversibly ill patients?

•What are the ethical issues involved?


• What is attempted CPR?

•Does attempted CPR work?

•What are the circumstances of patients for whom attempted CPR increases suffering and is not likely to work?

• In patients for whom attempted CPR is not likely to work, what do doctors recommend?

• What is an AND order (Allow Natural Death)?

• How does an AND order affect other decisions about life-sustaining


• What are DNR orders (Do Not Resuscitate)?

• Do DNR orders apply outside the hospital, such as in the nursing home?

• Isn’t there more to a decision about CPR and AND than statistics about results of treatment?

• What are the ethical issues involved?


• What is a hospice?

• Aren’t hospice care and palliative care the same?

• Am I giving up on myself or my loved one if I choose hospice care?

• What might I expect at a hospice?

• Does hospice care shorten life?

• Does hospice care cost extra?

• How do I know when a hospice is the right thing to do?

•Where can I get more information about hospice care?


• Are there deficiencies in pain management for seriously ill hospitalized patients?

• Where can I get help with pain management?

• Is this what patients want when facing serious illness?

• Is this what patients want if they might be at the end of life?

• What are some of the ways that pain can be treated in a medical or care-giving setting?

• What are opioids?

•Aren’t opioids bad for a patient?

• Don’t they cause addiction and do more harm than good?


• What is palliative care?

• What are the goals of palliative care?

Who is eligible for palliative care?

• What services are provided through palliative care consultation?

• How may I access palliative care services?


• What are the causes of severe brain injuries?

• What is a coma?

• If I or my loved one is in a coma, does that mean they are brain dead?

• How is a coma treated?

• How long does a coma last? Can my loved one ever recover from a coma?

• What is brain death?

• How can the doctors say my loved one is brain dead when I see them breathing and their heart is still beating?

• Is there any treatment to reverse brain death? Who makes a decision to stop such treatments?

If the doctors determine that my loved one is in the vegetative state, what do they mean?

• How long does the vegetative state last?

• Is there any treatment to reverse the vegetative state and make it go away?

• The doctors say my loved one is in the minimally conscious state. What does that mean?

How do doctors know what type of brain problem my loved one has?

• How do doctors know if there is any chance of recovery?

“Meaningful recovery” sounds like a loaded term. Who is to say what is “meaningful”?


• What is an autopsy?

• Why should an autopsy be done?

• Why is it important to families? To


• Will the autopsy affect funeral plans?

• How do I get an autopsy done?

• Is there a charge for the autopsy?

• How do I find out the results of the autopsy?

• What is involved in organ donation?

• What happens to the body?