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I know this might sound stupid but does anyone else avoid telling others they have Fibromyalgia? Im so fed up of trying to explain it and i feel like some people still don't think it's a real thing.I also feel like I'm just a pain in the arse to my GP. If I do contact them about a new symptom (like pain management say I should) they really aren't bothered. No investigation happens, it's just put down to fibromyalgia.

Is it just me that feels like this? I feel hopeless at times 😞

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SadiesMom

I don't bother telling anybody ... nobody believes it's real ... just like the anxiety I've suffered with my whole life ... I just put on a happy smile ... much easier ... but that's just me ...

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Pixix

Yes…for 12 years. I made the mistake of telling an ex senior nurse (who I thought was a friend) & she made it clear she thought it was all in my head. She said that medics laugh about the condition. Six months later she asked me how I was. I said fine (well, I wasn’t going to tell her I was suffering, was I?) She smugly said ‘I knew you would be’!

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Bcol

My OH has Fibro, the important people know but she doesn't bother to tell anyone else. Doctors and medical staff here are actually very good with it.

I think I would have battered your ex senior nurse "Pixix".

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ratoncita

Yes. I’ve heard “ it’s all in your head “ or “It’s not a real condition “. 😠 so, I don’t bother trying to explain but if they really want to know I send them medical articles. If they really want to know, they can read them. People close to me who understand know that I have good days/bad days and don’t judge, just work around them. Just an FYI, I got the best care and support from a Naturopathic Dr.

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Smilesalot

Hi PurpleSnoop,I totally agree with you.

My carer is always encouraging me to go to gp with new symptoms. No point. It's too much hassle for no return. I feel like an idiot when I have. Plus even trying to speak to the Dr is impossible nowadays.

I hope you're not suffering too much pain on ur own

Hugs Dawn x

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