Advice on DP options on a website state as follows : Direct payments must be made subject to the condition that they must not be used to pay any person mentioned in paragraph (3) to meet the needs of the adult in respect of whose needs the direct payment is made.
(2) Except that, if the local authority considers it is necessary to do so, direct payments may be used to pay a person mentioned in paragraph (3)—
3) The persons referred to in paragraph (1) are—
(a)
the spouse or civil partner of the adult;
(b)
a person who lives with the adult as if their spouse or civil partner;
(c)
a person living in the same household as the adult who is the adult’s—
(i)
parent or parent-in-law,
(ii)
son or daughter,
(iii)
son-in-law or daughter-in-law,
(iv)
stepson or stepdaughter,
(v)
brother or sister,
(vi)
aunt or uncle, or
(vii)
grandparent;
So i think this can be done by LA they just don't want to even when it makes sense ! and gives the person needing the support stability and security.
I look forward to views and if anyone else has managed to get LA & social worker to do something more flexible and workable for our loved ones.