over 18 support

[nursenatalie]

hi, im looking for advice on what to expect, and where to look for what a child who is turning 18 is entitled to when moving to adult services. I have been unsuccessful in getting him into residential care so he has to remain at home which is a struggle

thanks in advance

[Jofisher]

Wow where do I start I would strongly advice if your loved one lacks capacity to consider becoming their deputy. It’s expensive through a solicitor but you can do it online through the government website the forms are a bit daunting but they’re are well worth doing and I’ve found them invaluable. That’s of course if your child needs to be living in care I don’t know what your situation is so this is a big question your asking with so many different paths. Can you be more specific in the questions so we can be more help to you. You will feel a bit like you fallen off a cliff and a lot of the services fall away but we’ve all been there. Where all here to help and support so ask away and if we don’t know the Mencap helpline maybe able to help you. Best Wishes

[BenjiB]

It depends on a lot of things. At 18 you don’t “have” to house him. Do you have a social worker?

[Sarah_Mencap]

Hello

I am sorry that you haven't been able to get him into the care you wanted. Is there any chance to appeal this or look for an alternative?

We have some information about transition on our website here - mencap.org.uk/advice-and-su...

There is also the preparing for adulthood website here - preparingforadulthood.org.uk/

So much depends on your particular situation - your son's needs, where you live, plus much more.

Please do call our helpline if you would like to talk this through with someone. You can call them on 0808 808 1111 or email [e-mail]. Here is the webpage with more information on - mencap.org.uk/advice-and-su...

Best wishes

Sarah