Big thanks to everyone who offered advice on what to take to a wedding. In the end my friend cooked me an assortment of absolutely delicious food and so did my husband. They sorted out the transport of the food and discussed the practicalities with the caterer at the wedding. As predicted even though the wedding breakfast food was absolutely superb, everyone on my table was extremely jealous of my delicious platter which was served hot by the caterers! I was stuffed full and could not finish the food!