8th transfer here I come 🤞

So I had my follow up appointment and I have a plan! 🙌 I just wanted to say to anyone that’s had multiple failures please make sure you have confidence in your consultant and your self I think it’s so important although they are the experts your should always go with your gut and remember your not a statistic ❤️

[Cinderella5]

Wishing you loads of luck!! I'm a fellow multiple failure lady here so know what you're up against! Hope this is your time. Are you doing anything differently?xx

[Hidden in reply to Cinderella5]

Funny enough yes/no after I had my son I changed consultants they changed my protocol from long to short as my amh and fsh had got worse whoever having spoken to my original consultant they said I still respond very well so my test result are just a number in there eyes he said why change something we knows works so we are going to back to long protocol basically doing everything the same as when I had my son But as I need nk meds it will be a freeze all round it’s a risk but one I worth taking I don’t have a great freezing history but my hands are tied due to Covid we discussed a era but as iv had a baby they don’t think I need it as we know transfer date is right xxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Hidden]

I hope it all goes well for you!! I'm just using frosties....hoping to go for number 9 soon.xx

[Hidden in reply to Cinderella5]

Good luck and well done for not giving up it’s so hard but I honestly believe it’s just luck it’s about getting all the pieces to fit together at the right time as as long as you don’t give up one day that will happen ❤️

[Cinderella5 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you! I do agree with you, I think I've just had an awkward body mixed with bad luck. Weve had every test under the sun now and 3 transfers left so here's hoping things fall into place soon.🤗xx

[Hidden in reply to Cinderella5]

Iv had every test under the sun to apart from the nk there is no real explanation apart from bad luck the only positive about so many round is nothing fazes me anymore I’m pretty relax about the whole thing apart from the tww I’m alway fine till day 5 then start to lose it abit 🙈Iv always been pretty open and honest with friends but Iv decided to keep it private from now on because honestly the questions gone from when are you have a baby? to when are you having another baby? People think that wow 9 eggs that means 9 baby’s and it really isn’t that simple! X

[Cinderella5 in reply to Hidden]

Ha ha ha I think people have stopped asking me to be honest as they're scared to bring it up!🤣 Think weve transferred 14 embryos in total...6 left....you'd think one of them would stick around eh?!🙄🤦🏼‍♀️xx

[Hidden in reply to Cinderella5]

You must of had a lot to freeze? I started doing double transfers after my 3rd failed cycle are yours nhs or self funded? Xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Hidden]

Self funding. We moved onto donor egg cycles after a few attempts with my own cycles. Spent a pretty penny now!😬🙈xx

[Hidden in reply to Cinderella5]

We are the same Iv really had to push my husband to carry on we have paid for 2 more rounds then that’s it we are out of money! X

[Cinderella5 in reply to Hidden]

Same as us and I'm not getting any younger. This is our last cycle.....to be honest I'm a bit done already, I'm but our clinic was kind enough to offer us a free cycle (which us unheard of) so couldnt say no!! So here I am, literally dragging myself through these last embryos to see what happens.xx

[Hidden in reply to Cinderella5]

A free cycle wow that is unheard of most would charge you to use the toilet 😂😂my last cycle that’s all I said I was just over it ! But when it didn’t work I thought I have to keep trying while I can I’m 34 I don’t have long left to keep trying and I don’t want to regret not trying the way I see see it I won’t regret trying but physically the last round was hard so I think another 2 is my limit xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Hidden]

Yes I dont want to have regrets either so completely get where you are coming from! I've also gone past our limit!🤣🤣 Fingers crossed there's a little bit of luck out there for us soon!xx

[recidwen]

lots of luck to to youuuuu. Xxxx