7dp5dt.....BFN

[NDE1987]

So here we have it, although it's not my official test day, I tested this morning as I felt I was going to start my period...I got yet another negative. Life is so cruel.

My official test date isn't until 12th June but I know it's not early to test yet as I had my egg collection on 24th may....this is just another knife to the heart

[emu2016]

Hey NDE, 12 June is still a whole week away... don't give up all hope just yet. You must be feeling pretty rotten. Perhaps test again in a few days? x

[NDE1987 in reply to emu2016]

Hi emu, I am pretty gutted, we will test again on official test date but I just have a feeling it's not worked... X

[Tugsgirl]

Hey, I don't want to get your hopes up but that is super early! I felt like I was getting my period on days 5/6 dp on my 5dfet and it was a bfp on otd xx

[NDE1987 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Hi tugsgirl, thank you. We will test again on official test date. But it just felt like a long date that the clinic had given us. X

[Tugsgirl in reply to NDE1987]

Mine was 11dp. I think your otd sounds about right xx

[Cinderella5]

Dont give it hope yet NDE1987 ! Its a wee bit early to show on hpt so there is still plenty of time for the result to change, its not over yet!xx

[NDE1987 in reply to Cinderella5]

Hi Cinderella, I feel so down. Isn't it usually 14 days after egg collection you should get a result? I don't think I can keep doing ivf. It mentally draining. X

[Cinderella5 in reply to NDE1987]

Here is a wee link to have a read of. It indicates that its maybe a bit early. You're right it is mentally draining, not to mention physically but we get there! Chin up, sounds like you need a hug so one sent!xx

bubblesandbumps.com/what-ha...

[NDE1987 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks so much hun, I had a read of the site and I guess your right to re-test later xx

[Sunshine09]

Hey another full week to go!! Don't lose heart just yet 🤞❤🌈💋

[NDE1987 in reply to Sunshine09]

Thanks hunny, just feel my clinic have given me such a long test date x

[Hidden]

I agree with the others- it's definitely not over yet. The clinics give you a test date for a reason- if they thought that a pregnancy could be detected earlier they'd say to test earlier! My sister had no symptoms at all after she conceived my niece after TTC- she didn't feel any different. She only realised she might be when her period was a few days late. I guess what I'm saying it is very early days- not every women will have symptoms. Also PMS and early pregnancy have identical symptoms which makes this whole trying for a baby even harder! The other thing to consider is you may have implanted later- hence negative test. This journey is truly exhausting at the best of times- I've experienced highs and lows I didn't know were possible and all I have done is take clomid- the supposedly "easy" treatment and even that made a mess if me. So I can't imagine how tough I'd find IVF- my hat goes off to any one who has IVF- very brave and clearly made of strong stuff! Somehow you will find the inner strength to keep going. This is just a bad day- it will pass and tomorrow is a new day. But for today just be kind to yourselves. Take care x x x

[NDE1987 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much for your message Jess,I understand what your trying to say. Hope all is well with you and your given a date for your lap operation! I hope it's a bad day but turns into a good week xx

[Hidden in reply to NDE1987]

Thanks lovely- my lap is this Wednesday!

Wishing you two magic lines on test day 😁 x x x

[Sherry07]

Hi hun, don't give up; it's 5th today for heaven's sake. Wait until the official test date. I'm keeping everything crossed for you 😇

[NDE1987 in reply to Sherry07]

Thanks hun, just felt confused as it's nearly 14 days after egg collection x

[Sherry07 in reply to NDE1987]

Wish you all the best. Hope you come back here with great news ☘️

[NDE1987 in reply to Sherry07]

Thanks hun, hopefully, getting period cramps, and on knicker watch! X

[misswinky34]

Hope you just did it too early sweetness. Good luck 🍀

[NDE1987 in reply to misswinky34]

I hope so to Hun. Can't keep going through this x

[CountryCat]

Oh hunny, I am so sorry, but I don't think you are out yet! Wait a day or two and test again then.

I also feel like it hasn't worked, we just have to keep the faith. I am sorry that you have been so upset today and hope things improve xx

[NDE1987 in reply to CountryCat]

Thanks hunny, were both in the same boat x

[Tara123]

Stay strong it's early days yet hun big hugs xxx

[NDE1987 in reply to Tara123]

Thanks Tara, hope your well x

[Hidden]

Not over yet keep positive you still have a week to go xx

[NDE1987 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks hun. Hope your well. Xx

[Georgina78]

Aw Hun I understand but you're absolutely not out yet, not by any stretch, it's still a week off! I know it's so hard (believe me I know!) but try to stay positive and occupied and I hope the week doesn't drag too much xx

[NDE1987 in reply to Georgina78]

Hey Hun, I just feel confused as on Google it says you can know by 14 days after egg collection, and for me that is this Wednesday. And the test I brought said it can detect 5 days early xx

[ch319]

I think you are still testing way to early. There is still hope! X

[NDE1987 in reply to ch319]

Il see hun... Dr Google said that you can test 14 days after egg collection! I will wait until my official test date. X

[ch319 in reply to NDE1987]

I was very late before I got my bfp and had days of bfns. Everybody's body is different. I'm going to keep my fingers crossed for you over the next week xx

[NDE1987 in reply to ch319]

Thanks so much hun, I really hope so. Getting strong cramps today. Will keep my fingers crossed to xx