2ww over 😢

So our 2ww has ended as af has come. Really don't know what to do with myself at present I don't think I could do all this again 😢. Good luck to everyone else who's on the 2ww xx

[Sunnysam91]

Very sorry take care x

[Billiejean01]

So sorry to read this, I feel like I won't be far behind. Take your time and look after yourself. I know how hard it is but it will get better. Hugs. Xx

[Pandash]

That sucks so much. This post was me on Friday night. I was crushed. I had a complete and utter "I can't do this again" meltdown - and this was my first shot at it! I have no idea how people manage to go through this over and over again. I'm feeling more positive as the week goes by, but you just need to take some selfish "me" time and have a think about what's right for you. If there's a lot going on in your life, maybe just choose to focus on one thing at a time and don't spread yourself too thin xxxx

[Hidden]

I'm sorry Katrina ☹️ I've been there & know how utterly devastating it is.

You will get through it though.

You don't have to decide anything right away, but you CAN do it again in time if you want to, you are stronger than you know xxx

[Tugsgirl]

You can do it again and you probably will. In the meantime take care of yourself, treat yourself, splash out, pig out, have a bottle of wine. Bfns truly suck. Wishing you better luck next time 🍀🍀🍀

[Pandash in reply to Tugsgirl]

+1 to this!

[Hidden]

Sorry to hear this look after yourself xxx

[Amanda86]

Sorry to hear this. It's very tough but in time you'll feel strong enough again.

Give yourself as much time as you need. Take care xxx

[vic77]

I am so sorry to read this.it is natural you feel like this now give yourself some time to recover and get a plan together. Was this your first cycle? You are stronger than you feel right now remember you had to have been to have got this far xxxx

[Aleelilook]

Ah I'm so sorry to hear this, it is totally awful when it doesn't work, and my words I know won't help, but be kind to yourself and take your time xxx

[Waitingforourmiracle]

So very sorry to read this. I keep thinking about if mine doesn't work and since I've had some awful side effects to the meds and procedures I keep thinking I can't go through this again, however on the days where I'm side effect free I feel more positive and think maybe I could do it again as the side effects and pain don't last forever. But what I do know is if I am in this situation I will be taking a good few months off to enjoy the summer, drink lots, have massages and do all the things you can't do during ivf so I'm refreshed and ready to fight for our much longed for baby because for me even with the awful time I've had on ivf that baby is worth trying for.

Take some time off from it all, treat yourself to whatever you want, maybe have a nice holiday and then see how you feel. You've done it once and got through it - you are strong enough to do it again if that is what you decide and you will have the support of all of us

[emmab178]

So sorry to hear this. Big hugs x

[Hidden]

Thank you everyone for your kind words this was our first cycle. We get married in July so that's my focus now and will think about trying again after that. It's really helped me being on here and having such lovely people to talk to who are going through the same thing xxx

[Leesalou]

Sorry to hear this, big hugs 🤗 take care, xxx

[Oakey80]

Aw Katrina, I know exactly how you feel as this is also me today. Me and my dh agreed it's weird because our heads say it's not the end of the world but our hearts are broken!

We have got lots of lovely things planned including fulfilling dreams we've had for a long time but my fear is that nothing will truly fulfil what we really want in life...so I know we'll be back...bigger and stronger from the knocks!

Hope you're ok and not too down.

Much love xxx

[pana82]

So sorry Katrina. Sending you hugs.

Congratulating you on your upcoming wedding and I'm sure you'll have the strength to try again when you're ready. Xxx

[Beanme]

So sorry to hear this. Take some time out and do something nice for yourself. Be good to yourself xxx

[baby2016]

Aw Katrina1986 sending you a big hug. I'm in the same boat and it's a horrible feeling. So sorry it's not worked for you. I feel the same about going again but know I'll keep going, as will you. Use the break to enjoy life again and hopefully it will do us good and come back fighting and stronger for the next round xx

[Sunshine09]

So sorry to here this, keep strong, xx

[KiraJean]

Hi Katrina1986,

Well we are the same boat. My bfn came yesterday. I'm doing okay, but I agree with you, I feel as if there are only so many times I could go through this whole process.

Thinking of you xx

[72cloud9]

Oh so sorry Hun, don't try & make any decisions right now-it's all too raw for u. Just look after yourself xxxx

[NMP1026]

So sorry. Thinking of you xx

[Kelly-03]

So sorry to hear this x take your time you need to know what's best for you next xx