Fairly frequently as I wake in the AM The question is floating before me. I live alone, never considered that. I live in Santa Fe NM, never thought I would leave NYC. I am wrestling with several Dxes one of which is PD. Anyone out there have an answer? (just kidding).
Today I want to address the way in which people try to be supportive ...and miss the mark. Example; The question "How are you?" Aarrgh! Is that a social twitch not really wanting an answer? Is it sincere? What do they want to know? Did the PD disappear over night? Can I say how bored I am with dealing with, talking about, in general focussing on my health or lack thereof.? Think I'll stop for now and go outside to enjoy the sunshine and clear air. gran5-
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When people ask me "how are you feeling?" I just wanna say to them "I HAVE PD HOW THE HECK DO YOU THINK I`M FEELING?" but I dont...I stay calm and just say "oh I`m ok thanks" then I make a point of having a joke about my shaky hand, they see I can joke and have a laugh and it seems to make them feel easier. I try never to talk about PD in th negative...I cant be doing with that.
Wish I could enjoy the sunshine but Its very cold and frosty here....plus its 7.30pm....and dark!! lol
How are you is an almost impossible question to be asked. I can wake up feeling good and then things could have gone downhill by lunchtime.
Also every day is different. Some days my tablets just do not work for an unknown reason and I just don't want to do anything. I am sure people are just being polite so I usually say "ok, thank you" and they very rarely ask anything else.
Same with me. Don't really understand good and bad days. Mornings are usually bad, and by late afternoon and evening, I feel pretty good. May be the way and time I take my sinemet
I'm pretty much alone most of the time. I space out a lot and am having mobility problems, I have to go to NM to remove my persnal items from the house that my ex dumped on me. A fine gift yes but left it a disaster. With living on a fixed income I have no choice. My sis and her husband are taking me down and helping but I don't know if I'll survive the trip. I'm still recovering from the flu that I got at Xmas, head cold that won't go away and I feel like crap. Wish me luck! Leaving tomorrow..packed or not. You'd think riding in a car would be okay but it just wipes me out to go anywhere.
I hear you, just having PD is exhausting and ppl that don't have PD just look at me like I am crazy when I make such statements.
Overall, things are draining on my energy. Music I have found gets me hyper and gives me energy. It doesn't always work but for the most part a favorite CD turned up loud with the bass cranked and the tweeters on a high.......... puts me in a better mood. I am a Heavy Metal and Hard Rock junkie..........
Music I have found has really helped me with all my emotions........ from anger and frustration to Happiness!
I can relate, I have this friend that has this annoying habit of asking me "Well I don't know what you can do? So you make the plans". This comment always angers me and I respond with the same answer everytime "You've known me for 7 years, you know i have good days and i have bad days and you know that i cannot predict what tomorrow will bring. So if I am having a bad day you know what i can do and if i have a good day you know what I can do. I wish you could spend just 24 hours trapped inside my body so you would know what living with PD feels like and how annoying that comment is and then I would take the PD back from you because I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy (that is if i had any enemies)..lol.
Smiling is good. It uses a lot of muscles. And it can counter act the PD mask. It took me a while to realize that my historically smiling face now looks stern even when I am happy.
Whenever someone takes my photo I deliberately exaggerate my smile so that it shows up in my photos. I feel like my photos should turn out with me smiling like the Chesire Cat in Alice in Wonderland but nope it is just a regular smile. If I just do what I think is a normal smile I am not smiling at all in my photos.
It seems so strange to be in this body that used to work and now seems so foreign.
How DID you get out of NYC? I'm pondering that question--to leave or not to leave? I smile a lot when I don't even know I'm doing it. More like a grimace, I suspect. I only know this because strangers smile at me (in NYC!) Anyway sometimes I say "Good!", sometimes I say "better" or "asi, asi" (soso) and sometimes I go into gory details!
i love NYC, always have, here comes the but ...1. it is a city for young people, 2. as much as i love it I can walk around my place here all day and my white socks stay white and that same stuff doesn't hang in the air, 3 Santa Fe is not cheap unless you compare it with NY and4. I have been in love with the SW for years, still am. 5. then there is the pace sooo much sloower and there are people and things I miss from the East Coast culture but I am content for now.
My decision in dealing with traveling: I got a platinum card. It cost a larger membership fee, BUT it gives me access to the lounges, where there are free snacks and some have food for purchase. Also comfortable seating and QUIET atmosphere.
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