I have in laws, both 80 plus. Father in law in temporary care after hospital.Requires lifting in and out of bed to wc to chair and reverse. Dementia getting worse. Mother in law is home after hospital. It nearly killed her with him being so demanding day and night for lat 2 years. She's just getting better now but fears same will happen if he returns home. Home would need great adaption to receive him back and nurses morning and night to move him. My wife has been run ragged looking after them both and we feel present situation is best for all but seems social services will want him home if he says so cause the only take in his wishes. Lots of ways to look at this I know and no experience of any of this. What do you think?