We have been trying to conceive for nearly 1 1/2 years and are really struggling as we need to find the right time.
Let me explain... My partner is under a lot of stress from work (and is 20 years older than me, don't know if that matters) so he really has to force himself to perform.
The first year I was using ovulation tests which showed me ovulating around 14 to 16 days after the first day of my period.
As I didn't get pregnant in that year time we decided to go to the GP and get ourselves tested.
The GP told me I had to go in on the 21st day after the first day of my period to see if I was ovulating. Both our test came back positive. His swimmers still swim and I am perfectly fertile as well.
Now my question is... do I ovulate 14 to 16 days (as the ovulation tests say) or 21 days (as my GP said) after my first day of my period???
I am so confused and getting really frustrated as if I get 2 chances a month (sexwhise) I am lucky!
We really want to get pregnant and it is getting really frustrating for us so I need help!