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Bypass next week - I'm terrified.

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Hi. I had an MI in 2012 with one stent in the left circumflex. All other vessels were clear. I had no problems at all - until three weeks ago when I started getting chest pain. After some very frustrating A&E visits where I was sent home twice because my ECG was normal and troponin levels were under 30, I had a lot of pain last weekend and my GP rang the cardiology registrar at the hospital. Fast forward seven hours and I'm on a ward because I've had another MI. Small.... Troponin of 240.

Off to the cath lab where I was expecting the same as last time really.... Probably one stent and home later that day.

Unfortunately, it turns out it's a mess in there. The previously stented left circumflex has had restenosis and is now 90% blocked and the other three left arteries are all between 95% and 99% blocked.

They have now decided the best way forward for me is a triple, possibly quadruple bypass.

This is due next week.

I'm very very scared.

They keep reassuring me that because of my age - 60 and having no significant other health issues, I'm better placed than many for a successful outcome. However, I'm still terrified.

Please can you help calm my nerves! I can't get my head around the idea that my chest is going to be split open and my heart stopped etc.

I'm imagining the William Wallace 'purging' scene from the end of Braveheart 😰

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Ageingfast

Dear Kev

Waiting for the op is the worst bit. When you get to the cardiac ward it will be much better, especially much less frightening.

I don’t want to know details of ops on me, so I didn’t have any thoughts about what happens. I put my trust in the fantastic surgeons and assistants etc. All you will know about is up to the anaesthetist telling you to count out loud, you won’t know anything until you wake up in ICU.

Please try to divert your thoughts as best you can. Think also about how nice it will be when you are fully recovered.

Ask the surgeon what you can do to help him/her. It changes your own attitude and pleases the surgeon.

I can still remember entering the hospital for my op. The fear and dreading melted away. And I left the hospital with a new life ahead of me.

Sooty

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Jcdg

I agree with Ageingfast it’s the waiting that’s the hardest, the mind can play awful tricks on you !

I’m a year post Op now but still have thoughts on the how’s and why’s 🤷‍♀️

The medical staff were absolutely fantastic, they explained everything and were very patient with me (lots of questions)

It’s not a walk in the park a slow stroll maybe , lots of pillows to support yourself and take your meds!

They will advise you on what you can and cannot do please listen to them

Wishing you a speedy recovery

Take care 🙂

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Greencurry

Kev

Please don’t worry, there is nothing to be scared of.

I had my 62nd birthday in Papworth, so we are pretty close in age.

I am now 6 months post operation and i feel better than i have done for years.

I only have positive things to say about the whole experience in hospital. I had my fears the same as you. But the professionalism of surgeons, nurses and support staff puts you at ease.

Post op isn’t a cake walk, there is discomfort, but the pain is very manageable. Just take your meds and you will be fine.

Recovery for me was quite gradual and it can seem like your progress isn’t as rapid as some other peoples. But just relax, and think how much better life will be in the future.

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Wheezy54

Hallo thereMy husband ( age 64) has just had a triple by pass on Tuesday. I was terrified for him tbh. Tuesday I kept pacing up and down the living room. I wasn't allowed to visit him until Wednesday but was pleasantly surprised at how well he was doing; chatty, had eaten some tea and had got up for a small walk. We are hoping he can come home today or tomorrow. It's a big operation but safer now than it's ever been. By Xmas you will feel like a new person. Definitely for the best for you long term. Good luck and take care xx

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CyclingTime

Hi I was the same age. Don't overdo think it, to these heart surgeons they have done it so many times now it's like going to the dentist.

Recovery is quicker than you think and your memory will park it and you will forget almost everything that happened.

Just relax let it happen and enjoy the new health once done 😊

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sjs1me

Hi, I'm 67 and had a quad in June this year. Post surgery I was awoken in ICU around 7am, sat in chair at 7:30 and eating breakfast about 8. Went for a walk around ICU at 10:30 and rest of day in chair. Visitors at 4pm. Spent a second night in ICU and moved to ward the following morning after another walk. Discharged 2 days later. Yes, it was uncomfortable and you feel a bit battered and bruised but not nearly as bad as I had anticipated. 12 weeks post at the moment and half way through cardiac rehab, largely back where I was regarding fitness. Hope all goes well and try not to worry...too much.

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stevetheadi

Hi

I had a triple bypass in June of this year and like you, I was really scared before I had the operation.

I was worried that I might not survive it and if I did could I manage the post-op pain?

Well, I survived :) My surgeon told me that there was a less than 2% chance of serious complications during the surgery and that bypass surgery was no more risky than, say, repairing a broken arm. They have done so many they have a plan in place for all eventualities.

Pain, what pain? Only once was I given morphine (in ICU) the rest of the time paracetamol was enough. I was never in real pain just uncomfortable. All those wires sticking out, you can’t get comfortable! When they are removed after a couple of days you will feel much better.

Three months on I feel really good. So much fitter than I was before the operation and grateful for getting a ‘second chance’.

But whatever I say you will be worried - until you get admitted and the hospital staff reassure you.

Afterwards, you will wonder what all the fuss was about, honestly.

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Kev_64

Thank you all so much. Your words are definitely having a helpful effect on my anxiety. ❤️

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Cee-Cee1

Hi Kev - as a few others have already said, the waiting time prior to your op is the worst bit! It's all very well for us to say "don't worry", because you will - we're human and it's programmed into us! 😊

We're all unique and our experiences are different, but I'm a 64 yr-old female and had a HA in January 2022 when I was 62 and was admitted to hospital where I stayed for five weeks prior to a triple bypass in February 2022 and that was the worst bit of all! The day of the operation itself, and the treatment immediately afterwards, works like an incredibly well-oiled machine. These amazing surgeons and their teams are performing these operations countless times every year and it's almost become routine these days.

Afterwards was definitely a LOT less traumatic and a LOT less painful than I expected it to be. I managed with simple paracetamol afterwards, as did a lot of the others in ICU with me, although I did take the full daily dose for a week or so afterwards (2 tablets x 4 times per day) until I suddenly realised I didn't need them anymore.

There's no doubt that it is a big op for us, and recovery is slow and steady but afterwards you'll probably, like me, be amazed at how quickly it all happens. I was transferred to ICU at 9:30pm after the op and sitting up beside the bed the next morning having a cuppa, although I did need a bit of help to get out due to all the wires! You'll be attached to a lot of wires and drains immediately afterwards, which look scary to visitors, but they'll be removed very quickly too and they're not painful. I was home 4/5 days afterwards and I live alone although my brother did call in every morning to check all was well and to see if I needed anything. That first night in my own bed after being in hospital for six weeks was like heaven - suddenly, also like poor William Wallace - FREEDOM!😆

Try to take your mind off it at the moment by making a little list of things you may need - I can recommend buying a perfume-free shower gel for afterwards as your wound might be a bit 'stingy' (M&S do a good one and Sanex is good as well) and a little cushion or rolled up towel for under the seatbelt when you're travelling home. Front button PJ's are good too as it gives the medics easy access afterwards to check on things.

You'll be grand and I wish you luck, even though you won't need it - it'll be over and done with before you know it and you can start to look forward to a new lease of life. It's two & a half years now since my op and I still feel better than I felt in the years prior to it.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on if you have time. Carol 👍

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Kev_64

Thank you so much Cee-Cee. I will ❤️

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Oldknees

Don't do as I did Went in 2018 aged 61 always been fit Was told I was having a quintiple bypass Doctor told me as long as you are fit your recovery will be quick So ten times a day I would go to the bathroom and do 100 press ups,dips and squats.Because of cancellations I was in 4 weeks before my op.Mostly because I was bored but I don't advise you to do it.😁😁 good luck

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Snowflake01

The 'good thing' is that you won't have to wait long. I'm convinced that my bypass was the best thing for me and this belief was enough to take me through with the op (positivity!). Once you've arrived at the hospital, they take good care of you and there's enough distraction to take your mind off worrying.

My experience was excellent from arriving through to leaving. The recovery is obviously longer than the stent, so you'll need to prepared for the duration, but things steadily improve. There's loads of threads on here that really helped me mentally and physically prepare. All the best for next week 👍👍👍

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