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Hi all,

What’s peoples thoughts on this? I’m currently in Spain on holiday with my family. Will I have a few more beers or wine than normal, yes I will. Will I eat a bit more “no good” than normal, yes I will,

I obviously want to be around for as long as possible for my family (I have 3 young kids) but sometimes I feel I need to make memories now and if that means a bit over indulging then so be it.

I know it’s a balance between now and healthy for the future.

Best wishes all.

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Happyrosie profile image
Happyrosie

have a lovely holiday

SlothOnSpeed profile image
SlothOnSpeed

Many people live exemplarily lives and die early. There are no guarantees in life. Do enjoy your holiday.

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Seal59

Enjoy your holiday, sounds great x

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devonian186

Enjoy your holiday. All I would say is keep out of the sun (30c in the shade will equate to 60c in the sun) and drink lots of fluid other than alcohol as well.

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ROBBO36 in reply to devonian186

Thank you. Very hot indeed and most certainly drinking lots of water.

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Farmer87

I literally live how I want in, I do what I like, buy what I like, go away as much as I can drink and eat in moderation when we're away but healthy back home. My wife always tells me off to stop acting as if I'm going to die but only you with a condition understand the behaviour enjoy it while you can is what I go by.

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ROBBO36 in reply to Farmer87

Thank you, I love your outlook on life. Spot on

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CyclingTime

A holiday won't effect things as long as you get on it when you get back home so enjoy your holiday

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Wooodsie

Go for it. I personally enjoy a normal life. Making adjustments to diet and exercise is plenty of compensation. I wouldn't curtail my holiday enjoyment at all, nor should you if you choose not to 🍻🍺🍷🥂

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ROBBO36 in reply to Wooodsie

Thank you and that’s certainly the way I see things.

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DWizza

Enjoy it Robbo 🍻👊🏻 stick within limits though , don’t go binge drinking and gluttonous just enjoy the food beer and wine and back to preventative measures when back home …. Don’t know what heart condition you have but I think it’s important to be mindful of not making things worse for ourselves and family. I find booze really does affect me these days , particularly evening beers/wine , it upsets my sleep and I feel rotten the next day after a 2-3 pints so I don’t do it 🤦🏼🤣.

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ROBBO36 in reply to DWizza

Thank you. My days of going clubbing in Ibiza until 7am are well and truly in the past! If I’m out later than 11pm on holiday nowadays it’s a miracle 😂. It’s most definitely all in moderation, well maybe a little extra!

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DWizza in reply to ROBBO36

Perfect 👌🏻🤣🤣🤣 sounds like we’re on the same menu 🤣🤣🤣

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Bingo88

Absolutely correct. Have a wonderful holiday making memories because nobody knows how tomorrow can turn out. Our health can change in an instant. Brian

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ROBBO36 in reply to Bingo88

Absolutely 100%, thank you.

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Bruce67

Enjoy! Don't go mad and take risks, but you can still enjoy life. No one knows what's round the corner!

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Alfie33

How much was your insurance .because I checked and it was more than the holiday

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ROBBO36 in reply to Alfie33

Think it was about £150 for this single trip, that’s for the whole family.

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Bluedolphin123

I’ve just come home from open heart surgery and after asking the surgeon how to keep my heart healthy he said ‘ Just get on and live your life otherwise what was the point of all of this ‘

Obviously we need to try to balance our lifestyle so we feel well enough to enjoy it so have a great holiday 😊x

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ROBBO36 in reply to Bluedolphin123

Those sentiments in my opinion are what’s it’s all about. The balance between your health (which is clearly important) and “living” at the same time. I wish you well on your recovery.

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Bluedolphin123 in reply to ROBBO36

Thank you

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BaronFrankenstein in reply to Bluedolphin123

Its very easy for your surgeon to say this as he probably hasnt had any cardiac issues.

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Bluedolphin123 in reply to BaronFrankenstein

I guess I’d become so focussed on getting into more fitness and nutrition afterwards which to be fair I’ve always enjoyed with walking swimming yoga etc my whole life that it was just a reminder that this is a second chance to make the most of life. I know if I do , drink or eat things that are not good for me I’ll ultimately pay the price so it’s just not worth it 😂

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Bluedolphin123

I’ve just come home from open heart surgery and after asking the surgeon how to keep my heart healthy he said ‘ Just get on and live your life otherwise what was the point of all of this ‘

Obviously we need to try to balance our lifestyle so we feel well enough to enjoy it so have a great holiday 😊

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FakeNews

Have a fabulous time and enjoy yourself.

Cat04 profile image
Cat04

Quality of life versus quantity of live! Enjoy what you have now, you never know what's around the corner. 😊

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TAVIshock

You have answered your own questions. Be as happy as you possibly can, and don't fret how long itwill last.

warm best

Tavishock

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sandandkev

I totally agree,make memories and eat or drink within reason what you like as we don't know when our time is up, hopefully you've got a long well life ahead but make memories as they're important,and I love looking back at mine and hubby's xxx take care and thoroughly enjoy that holiday

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BeKind28-

Hello :-)

Life is for living and making memories you are on holiday so have a good time and enjoy yourself :-) x

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Jedi14

I think I would set myself some targets and live within them, making minor allowances for self indulgences, within reason, remember that family is aware of what we do and we don't want them worrying unnecassarily!

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RP1944

enjoy your holiday.

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Raft

Hi Robbie, glad you have raised this on the forum. It’s an issue that’s been on my mind for some weeks following my annual heart review where my cardiologists says I would now benefit from the TAVI procedure and I may need a pacemaker. He says if successful it would improve my quality of life for the remaining time available and thus be able to follow my bucket list and enjoy more,hoping the adjustment period still allows me to pursue the bucket rather than kick it!

Unfortunately a diagnosis of a new cancer which is in the early stages means that my heart is not the only determinant of my life expectancy!

So even more reason to get there and enjoy whilst I have the energy as I am 85 years old.

I commend you for your approach and the support you are getting from the Forum

Wish you the very best for a longer future.

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Bingofox007

enjoy your holiday, sort yourself when you get home but don’t deprive yourself of fun. Life is for living. We all have to look after our hearts on here but we mustn’t forget to look after our heads. Take care 🦊x

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Nelson71

I heard good advice, be sensible but don’t deprive yourself. The odd blow out every now and then won’t harm you as long as it’s not every day or week.

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Gundoglady

A little bit of what you fancy, does you good xHave a fab holiday x

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Harefieldfan

best wishes to you!!😊

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