Hello, I am a newbie here.
10 days ago I had a heart attack, 2 stents fitted and some complications with fluid build up in my lungs. I spent 6 nights in hospital and I am struggling to come to terms with what has happened.
Has anyone else experienced problems sleeping and night terrors?
Can anyone let me have any threads that would help me?
Thank you
Hi Carl, and welcome to the club
Just about everyone suffers insomnia and anxiety to some degree or other after a heart attack, so yes it's perfectly normal. In fact, NOT experiencing them after coming up hard against your own mortality would be a little odd!
At 10 days it's still really early days for you and it does improve. Every time you wake up is another chance to remind yourself that the fears the night before were unfounded and, over time, that makes a difference.
Hopefully some form of rehab will be available. If it is then grab the chance and use it. It'll really help you to learn what you CAN do rather than the natural tendency to focus on what you can't.
A heart attack that you survive (the really important bit!) doesn't automatically mean a life of sitting in a rocking chair with your pills always in reach just "waiting for the day".
With a little luck & a tail wind it can turn out to be a life changing event in a really positive way - mine took me from a 51 year old 108kg blob of sedentary watchmaker 2 1/2 years ago to 85kg (and dropping) and preparing fir my first half marathon this September. I know I was lucky, and (after the wobbles at the start) I've tried to make sure I don't waste that luck!
So, follow the advice (but don't stress over the bits you maybe can't) and make good use of the second chance those amazing medics have given you
Thank you so much, this was exactly what I needed to hear. I am so glad I found this forum.
You're welcome
We've all been there and the natural reaction is to curl up in a ball of bubble wrap to "protect" ourselves. Which is about the worst possible thing to do - physically and mentally.
Physically, pushing (gently) at our limits is what encourages the biological changes that are good and, mentally, reaching for those limits is a big part of rebuilding confidence.
I'm not talking beastings in the gym or tackling the London marathon, but walking that extra 5 minutes when you're feeling physically OK but your mind's starting to panic about how far you've gone.
Next time, that extra 5 minutes is a lot less scary!