Thanks for all the replies to the last message, I am sure she will be as touched as I was when she reads them.
An update, well we are coming to the end of day 3 of the ventilation, they tried this morning to take Andrea off it but her SATS plumeted so it was straight back on, they have now increased all meds in the hope to try again tomorrow, Ive been told that getting asthmatics off a ventilator if it goes on longer than 24hours is hard, and I know last time it was 3 weeks, so just hoping thats not the case again!
Snowygirl is still in hosp and Im in regular contact with her too, shes hoping to get out at the weekend!
Thanks all again, and fingers crossed that tomorrow mornings attempt is more sucessful, I need my wife back nagging me and our son needs his mum home (he says that hes fed up looking like a dork as I cant do his trendy hairstyle anywhere near like his mum does!) - Teenagers eh!