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Good to be back at the beach ⛱️

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I haven't been to the beach since the day before himself crossed rainbow bridge..We took him there as it was one of his favourite places where he chased the egrets that he would never catch and swam with me in the water his big paws ploughing through the salt water and the most beautiful smile on his face with his stunning soulful eyes staring at me always ...

I took Sadie today she swam in the sea loving the waves and me throwing sticks for her ...

I can't thank enough my two beautiful dogs for giving me the love and joy that I will carry with me always ...

Just missing himself today a lot 🥺🥺....

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sassy59 profile image
sassy59

Totally understandable Bb9 as Stan was very special. Sadie is too of course and she seems to love the beach and sea. Wonderful picture of a lovely girl.

Love and hugs, Carole xxx🩷💕💕🩷💕

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Blackbird9 in reply tosassy59

Thanks Carole today's been dreadful I hate that some days are like this... My eyes are raw and I'm hoping tomorrow my mood will have lifted ...I hope your well Mrs 🩷🩷🩷

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sassy59 in reply toBlackbird9

Animals of all kinds touch our hearts and Stan was really rescued by you so lived his best life. You must miss him and will have good days and not so good days. I remember sobbing over the loss of our beloved cat Tessa. I now remember her fondly and smile at the memories without crying. You will get there. Enjoy your weekend.

I’m ok thank you and keeping a close eye on Pete as he can’t do very much just now. He’s better at home than in hospital though. Xxx🩷🥰🤗

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leo60 in reply tosassy59

Great to hear Pete is back at home, I hope you're both coping ok xx

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sassy59 in reply toleo60

Thank you Laurie we’re doing ok. I like looking after Pete, he’s a good man. We will celebrate 50 years of marriage next month. Can’t wait. Xxx🩷

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leo60 in reply tosassy59

Carole, that is such a sweet thing to say 💕💕 Congratulations! Fifty years and still so obviously in love, such an achievement and so beautiful. xx

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sassy59 in reply toleo60

👍🥰💕🩷🩷

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Blackbird9 in reply tosassy59

Thank you so much my lovley I'm glad Petes at home with you ...Take care of each other 🩷🩷

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Alberta56

A lovely picture. What a beautiful soft colour the sea is. I hope eventually the grief will soften and the beach will hold only happy memories of dear Stan. xxx

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Blackbird9 in reply toAlberta56

Thankyou Alberta I'm a bit better today ... I hold lots of happy memories of him that's why it's hurts ...I seem to get those days like yesterday when everything is just about him he's everywhere I look but not being able to snuggle with him again....

🩷🩷

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Alberta56 in reply toBlackbird9

I hope you're feeling better today. It's sad to think of you being so sad. Bless dear Stan, wherever he may be. xxxx

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Blackbird9 in reply toAlberta56

Thankyou yes I'm better today I think going to the beach made it raw again for us ... He was my soul mate and though most of the time I'm completely fine with beautiful memories of him I just have terrible days where its all so painful again ... 💔

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BronchyBronwen

Really well done Blackbird9, for getting back to the beach. I do get how you feel, as still hard when I think of/see photos of my late little Suzy the Yorkie (gone now nearly 18 months). I think the sadness remains but find that the sharpness of it softens with time. I wish you Happy Memories. xxx

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Blackbird9 in reply toBronchyBronwen

Ahhh thankyou so much sane to you happy memories for you ❤️

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Collie4

You never stop missing them, i know. Glad you’ve been with your new companion, they are such a comfort.

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Blackbird9 in reply toCollie4

Never stop missing them but some days are worse than others like yesterday I'm lots better today thankyou ☺️

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Jaybird19

i had a dog as a child, i still remember the day i came from school to find a neighbour taking him for a walk. I was 11 or 12 and didnt know she was taking to the vet as mum couldnt do it . so I patted him and had a cuddle. It was his last day and I didnt know it.

Can still see him, and feel his warmth now--- 75 years later. You never get over the death of a friend ,and a dog is a real friend , and you always have them in your memory.

Treasure it. and have a little weep . It's life.

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Blackbird9 in reply toJaybird19

Awwww such a sad story no you won't ever forget them I just had a bad day 😞

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leo60

As others have said, the grief does soften in time (as I'm sure you know) leaving the happy times 😊

Lovely that Sadie loves the beach as well! xx

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Blackbird9 in reply toleo60

Many thanks Leo yes she loved it so much...Not fair on her I haven't taken her before now but we shall pay more visits 🩷

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Izb1

I love this photo BB and hope today your feeling a little better. Its terrible to lose the companions we got to love in such special ways. Stan wove his way through our hearts too seeing him on here and the antics he got upto. Knowing that you gave him so much love in his last years makes it all worthwhile and the pain will ease in time x

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Blackbird9 in reply toIzb1

Many thanks my lovley ..I'm much much better today .

So glad I took Sadie as she had the best time in the sea and enjoying the waves ... She made friends with a little black cocker spaniel same breed as himself ....

I think that's why it knocked me quickly and hard yesterday he was born in May same month as Stan passed over the bridge ...

I know everyone adored him he had that grace about him and drew people to him ❤️❤️

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Izb1 in reply toBlackbird9

So pleased you are feeling a little better and just know Sadie will take a place in your heart just as Stan did. Sending hugs x

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Shirleyj

💖💖xx

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JetJet

He was such a Special boy, only right and proper to miss him and shed a tear. Sadie looks like she is thoroughly enjoying herself!! X

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Blackbird9 in reply toJetJet

She loves her life ❤️ she's a fantastic little girl 🩷

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Souielouie

Sending you a Big Warm Hug 🤗 bless you 🥰 xx

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Blackbird9 in reply toSouielouie

Thankyou so much 💓

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Mooka

He was a special dog but you gave him a great life. That doesn’t stop us missing them though 🥹 They all leave something in our hearts.

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Blackbird9 in reply toMooka

Sadie met a little black cocker on the beach yesterday he was born in May same month as Stan passed...It just hit hard again 🩷

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Mooka in reply toBlackbird9

It’s the things like that that can set us off. I saw a dog recently whose face was just like our last dog and I had a lump in my throat. It’s nearly nine years since we took him on his last journey. We kept bumping into a couple of men who had recently lost their spaniel. Molly reminded them of their dog. They made such a fuss of her I think they would have taken her if they could. We wouldn’t have them in our homes if they didn’t make us happy 💕.

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Blackbird9 in reply toMooka

It's so very wrong they don't live long enough in my eyes ..It's so heartbreaking when we get sharp reminders like seeing a face or having a deep moment that's so real 💔

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Mooka in reply toBlackbird9

Totally agree.

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tomc

Great picture, Looking at the sea and Sadie Makes me jealous. I cant get around so much now even worse the devils took my driving licence away.. a well , Back into the bathtub with my imagination,,

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SuziElley

💕💕💕

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Nicholatracy

I understand. Beautiful memories 🐞

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Blackbird9 in reply toNicholatracy

Thanks my lovely 😍

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Morrison10

Lovely memories, glad you can go to beach again.

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Blackbird9 in reply toMorrison10

Absolutely I have missed it and Sadie loved it ❤️

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Germantara

Lovley picture you never get over loss off a pet I use to have German shepherds and I know its heart breaking but on a lighter note 50 years that's wonderfull take care

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Blackbird9 in reply toGermantara

I had a German shepherd who we lost about 17 years ago now ....she was 17 and the lovliest nature they are a beautiful breed 😍

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Germantara in reply toBlackbird9

German shepherd we had she was 16 and youreowen 17 years we have been very lucky to have them years as there life span is barely over 8 like me you would have very upset there are fine breed off dog

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Ern007

What a smashing photo and great to see you pet. really up for the fun. Wish I was there Bb

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Blackbird9 in reply toErn007

Thanks Ern

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Greenthorn

You capture Stan so well in your opening paragraph; almost makes me want to gulp as all the photos you shared with us flash through my mind. There is something Godly about the relationship between dog and owner; I can even invent a new adjective, "dogly" where the deepest love is shared between an animal and a human being. I wont forget your opening paragraph - it is just 'golden'. ❤️

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Blackbird9 in reply toGreenthorn

Ahhhh thankyou that's so very much appreciated I post here about him and how I feel cause I know the ones that knew him through just a picture will understand..Mostly everyone on here fell in love with himself and his beautiful soul ... I'm feeling better today and I appreciate everyone's lovley comments ....🩷

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Patk1

Ohh she is 😍 beautiful.He will b with you 💕thinking of you,and remembering him xx

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watergazer

Well bb I still miss my Sam who’s been gone a few years. The love these animals have for us is amazing. I miss my cuddles and being swamped and the cries if I left him- the big softie. I saw a GSD today doing exactly the same outside a shop , one owner inside and another with him but crying all the same. Sending you big hugs my friend 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗. Aww Susie looks like she’s enjoying herself xx

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Blackbird9 in reply towatergazer

That's the hard part when you get sharp reminders ... It just happens 😪

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watergazer in reply toBlackbird9

🤗🤗🤗

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pepparuby1

lovely photo. It’s a year since I had Mollie PTS due to a lung condition I still miss her

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Turnipgirl in reply topepparuby1

You will always miss Mollie as she was part of the family.

It was a right loss to the family though when Mollie died last year.

How's Pepparuby the black panther getting on and Hector and the kittens?

Baby is great and still getting spoilt!

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pepparuby1 in reply toTurnipgirl

The kittens are bi and growing!!! Pepparuby is a reserved kitty she sleeps on my bed most of the time and Hector is doing well

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Blackbird9 in reply topepparuby1

It's so heartbreaking 💔

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Turnipgirl

Many years ago one of my friends had a black and white border collie called Sadie!

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