Very insightful ! I have a poem by Mary Oliver on the noticeboard in my kitchen, given to me by a friend, four years ago. At that time, my husband and I were drowning under demands from relatives, racing back and forth to two other households, as well as trying to cope with our own problems and illnesses.
The poem given to me was the one about the person who walks away from the burning house and the clawing hands and pleadings of the people in it. The last line describes the person walking away to help the only person they can truly, help - themselves. That may seem cruel but it's just a dramatic, poetic way of reminding you that you can't take responsibility for the problems of others. Sure, you can help them but not to the stage where your own health and wellbeing suffers.
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