It was my four monthly appointment with the Consultant this afternoon but when I woke up my chest was rattling like a bag of nails...so after a bit of a think...sitting in the waiting area surrounded by people coughing and gagging and spreading their germs didn't much appeal...I 'phoned and cancelled. By lunch time I was breathing as normally as is possible and the rattling had disappeared...
I think I might have got to the root of Himself's problem...when I collapsed two years ago I was suffering from respiratory acidosis...had to practically drag that information out of the chief nurse in ICU...it's a nasty sort of thing and it can have the affect of making the sufferer act out of character...which I was doing for a good three days before finally turning my toes up...refusing to go to the Doctor for one thing...staying up most of the night was another.
Now I can't remember anything...absolutely nothing whatsoever...the last clear recollection was the man from the furniture shop delivering a new settee...the next was six days later sitting up in bed with tubes in every orifice and my hands encased in what looked like boxer gloves...to stop me from yanking the tubes out apparently.
I couldn't speak...that was weird. Didn't have my teeth...feel like a bit of a prat without teeth...when a nurse took the boxing gloves off someone had cut my fingernails incredibly short...then my entire face was covered with a horrendous mask...it was really tight. Wasn't allowed to have anything to drink...just little chips of ice to melt in my mouth. The mask stayed on for the longest twenty-four hours of my life...
Machines were bleeping and pinging and Doctors kept coming into my little corner where they'd stand and look at me...
Then there were the ginger kittens of course and the pots of dancing flowers and the helicopter landing in the middle of the ward...
But...I remember absolutely nothing whatsoever of the lead-up to all this drama...didn't then and still don't now.
What has transpired is that Himself thought I was deliberately not going to the Doctor's when I first felt unwell...he thought I was staying up all night on purpose...then when I came round on the ward I was demanding to be transferred to another hospital because I said all the nurses on the ICU were bx*ches who were being deliberately horrible to me...except I couldn't make my voice work properly so it came out quite strangely...and he thought I was being bloody-minded whereas I thought I was being perfectly reasonable...
It took a long time to convince him that I have no memory whatsoever of feeling below par...certainly can't recall refusing to go to the surgery...or staying up all night...he is still slightly puzzled...suppose it was all too clear to him at the time and he can't quite understand why that isn't so for me as well.
We've reached an agreement...if it looks as though a reoccurrence is about to happen, he is to call for an ambulance...the chances are slim that'll it'll happen again, especially with the regime of oxygen and the nebuliser...but if he's in the least bit worried call 999 and the nice ambulance men will sort it.
In the meantime we can't sort of sit about waiting until I get better 'cos that isn't going to happen...we need to go out and about while keeping within limitations...
So, I think it might be alright in the end...