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Hi everyone after being told my hubby's symptoms had worsened a few weeks ago he died on Wednesday. I am devastated and cant see a way forward without him. Life is continuing on and l will be brave for our 5 adult children.

I,m so thankful for my life with him, and for the support l've been given here

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Mavary

Hi Rockett. So sorry for your loss. I know how devastated you must be feeling at this moment. Xxx

My very deepest condolences and sympathy to you and your family with much love TAD xx

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newlands

I am so sorry to hear your news please accept my condolences ,your children will help you through thi awful time.

Take care thinking of you

Dorothyxx

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thomas8

Hi Rockett777, so sorry to hear of your loss, deepest condolences and love to you and your family

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Mocarey

Rocket I am so sad for you. My condolences to you and your family. M xx

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pergola1

You are in my thoughts, Rocket. It is a very hard time, but, believe me, things will become more bearable but it will take time xx

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BugsBunny

Hi Rockett. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Make sure you grieve properly rather than being brave for your children. We are always on the forum if you need a chat.

Kind Regards

Mandy

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pollyjj

So sorry to hear of your loss sending condolences to you and your family.

polly xx

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Jambo

So sorry to hear your sad news.

My thoughts are with you and your family

Xx

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huggs

Hi Rocket,

I am deeply saddened for you and your family in the loss of your beloved husband. Of course you are devastated, and can't see a way forward. There is, but it just takes time, after all it has just happened and the rawness is there. You have 5 adult children and you will find that you will all rally around each other, and get through it somehow. Everyone handles grief differently, but maybe trying to be brave isn't the healthiest way in the long run. At times, no doubt you will have to be, but at others, if you feel like having a good weep then go ahead and do it. It is not weak to show our emotions and cry. Take strength from others, and accept help when needed at this awful time. I know how you are feeling, and I am so so sorry for you. Remember, you are not alone, there is always this forum for you to come to and talk, if you feel that you don't want to talk to your family about things. I don't know if you have any faith in a religious sense, but if you do, then God is always there and knows your pain. I wish you peace and I will pray for you. With sympathy and hugs. hugs xx

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katieoxo60

Sorry to hear of your sad news Rockett777. There are no words to ease the pain, but time will. Take solace in the thought that your Hubby is at peace now with no suffering. Take time for yourself, look back on the good memories to help you face the future and I am sure your family will be a good support. You have my deepest sympathy at this sad time XX

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peege

My heart goes out to you and your family Rockett, this is sad news. I'm so sorry, words can't express but you will all receive very much love and support through the airwaves from hundreds on here.

Love to you, Peeg

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kimmy59

Morning Rockett

I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. Really hope we can continue to help and support you at this very sad time. You are in my thoughts and prays.

Kim xxxxx

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longdays

so sorry to hear of your loss rockett god bless xxx

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Puffthemagicdragon

Sorry to hear of the sad news but please remember the good times you both had together.

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cofdrop-UK

Dear Rockett

I am so sad to hear of your dear hubby's passing. Very raw for you Rockett and not surprising you don't see a way forward, but there will be, however long it takes. Please don't put extra unnecessary pressure on yourself trying to be the strong one - allow your adult children to comfort you too.

Condolences to you Rockett and your children and family and may you all have the strength to get through this most difficult time. You must have some wonderful memories of your times together, both as partners and as a family.

We're all here for you if you need or want to talk.

Love cx

I am so sorry Rockett. You are in my prayers and thoughts. xx

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hufferpuffer

Rockett, I am so, so very sorry for the loss of your husband, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers too, I pray you find peace and comfort, one day at a time, love hufferpuffer xxxxx

So sorry to hear this Rockett, words are meaningless at a time like this but I know you will appreciate the many messages from friends on here. xx

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Toci

Sad times. My condolences on your loss. x

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Suzy6

So sorry for your loss Rockett. In my thoughts and prayers. xx

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Louisiana

My heart goes out to you and your family. I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers. Do take care of yourself.

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medow

Dear dear rockett, so sorry your hubby has died, you must be in a complete state of shock and disbelieve, long journey in front of you, take all the love and support offered to you, you will feel all sorts of feelings over the coming months, I always find the 3/4 weeks after the funeral a very difficult time as others life's go back to normal and it's going to be a long time before your new normal arrives, keep coming onto the site for care and support and I for one will keep hubby you and your family in thoughts and prayers x x x god bless

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eightyplus

So sorry for your loss, please accept my condolences.

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DozyDormouse

So sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to you and the family and an all encompassing block out the world Dozy hug x

my deepest sympathy, remember the good times and the life you shared together,XXx

I am so very sorry to read of the death of your husband Rockett. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Take one day at a time, giving yourself time to grieve. Remember all the happy times you have had over the years.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Thérèse xxx

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Bryju124

So sorry for your loss please accept our condolences, remember all your happy times and the love you shared x

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Plumbob

Sorry to hear about your sadness,... I would like to echo everyone's comments at this sad time X

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Our thought are with you and your family.

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tigershay1

My deepest sympathies xx

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onamission

Hi Rockett I'm so sorry and my thoughts are with you and your family at this time we are always on line your never alone. xx

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rockett777

Today has felt so long and painful, people have been there all the time, the telephone has rung all day. My children have come from abroad and from the south to sob with me. All your messages of support as l try to rest have helped me. Thank you

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Thomac

Oh Rockett I'm so so sorry to hear this, I know the last few weeks have been terrible. You are in my thoughts

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thatcham1939

I am very sorry about your Husband, you must let your feelings show when you feel so very bad, im sure your adult children will understand if you burst into tears, it part of the healing process, God Bless.

jan

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Jolyn

I've only just read this rockett, I'm so sorry. xxx

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rockett777 in reply toJolyn

Hi Jolyn, thanks. Life is so difficult. How are you??

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Jolyn in reply torockett777

I'm doing ok thank you rockett...I let go on the bad days and enjoy the good days.

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