Hi everyone after being told my hubby's symptoms had worsened a few weeks ago he died on Wednesday. I am devastated and cant see a way forward without him. Life is continuing on and l will be brave for our 5 adult children.
I,m so thankful for my life with him, and for the support l've been given here
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Hi Rockett. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Make sure you grieve properly rather than being brave for your children. We are always on the forum if you need a chat.
I am deeply saddened for you and your family in the loss of your beloved husband. Of course you are devastated, and can't see a way forward. There is, but it just takes time, after all it has just happened and the rawness is there. You have 5 adult children and you will find that you will all rally around each other, and get through it somehow. Everyone handles grief differently, but maybe trying to be brave isn't the healthiest way in the long run. At times, no doubt you will have to be, but at others, if you feel like having a good weep then go ahead and do it. It is not weak to show our emotions and cry. Take strength from others, and accept help when needed at this awful time. I know how you are feeling, and I am so so sorry for you. Remember, you are not alone, there is always this forum for you to come to and talk, if you feel that you don't want to talk to your family about things. I don't know if you have any faith in a religious sense, but if you do, then God is always there and knows your pain. I wish you peace and I will pray for you. With sympathy and hugs. hugs xx
Sorry to hear of your sad news Rockett777. There are no words to ease the pain, but time will. Take solace in the thought that your Hubby is at peace now with no suffering. Take time for yourself, look back on the good memories to help you face the future and I am sure your family will be a good support. You have my deepest sympathy at this sad time XX
My heart goes out to you and your family Rockett, this is sad news. I'm so sorry, words can't express but you will all receive very much love and support through the airwaves from hundreds on here.
I am so sad to hear of your dear hubby's passing. Very raw for you Rockett and not surprising you don't see a way forward, but there will be, however long it takes. Please don't put extra unnecessary pressure on yourself trying to be the strong one - allow your adult children to comfort you too.
Condolences to you Rockett and your children and family and may you all have the strength to get through this most difficult time. You must have some wonderful memories of your times together, both as partners and as a family.
We're all here for you if you need or want to talk.
Love cx
I am so sorry Rockett. You are in my prayers and thoughts. xx
Rockett, I am so, so very sorry for the loss of your husband, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers too, I pray you find peace and comfort, one day at a time, love hufferpuffer xxxxx
So sorry to hear this Rockett, words are meaningless at a time like this but I know you will appreciate the many messages from friends on here. xx
Dear dear rockett, so sorry your hubby has died, you must be in a complete state of shock and disbelieve, long journey in front of you, take all the love and support offered to you, you will feel all sorts of feelings over the coming months, I always find the 3/4 weeks after the funeral a very difficult time as others life's go back to normal and it's going to be a long time before your new normal arrives, keep coming onto the site for care and support and I for one will keep hubby you and your family in thoughts and prayers x x x god bless
Today has felt so long and painful, people have been there all the time, the telephone has rung all day. My children have come from abroad and from the south to sob with me. All your messages of support as l try to rest have helped me. Thank you
I am very sorry about your Husband, you must let your feelings show when you feel so very bad, im sure your adult children will understand if you burst into tears, it part of the healing process, God Bless.
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