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Last night I could not breathe very well because of the weather and stayed awake. I kept the fan on and drank copious amounts of water to keep cool. As I couldn't sleep, I decided to go supermarket shopping, wrong! Whilst shopping my legs kept giving way. I returned home ,went back to bed and slept until 5.30pm.Badger did not leave my side and when I got up he ran out of the back door, talk about floods poor boy! I am still not breathing to my normal standard but am feeling a lot better.

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I came to Nottingham 4 years ago and bought a nice bungalow. Today I heard on the news that the man we bought it off had been stabbed to death last year by his 40 year old schizophrenic who has today been sentenced to a secure unit in Her Majesty's Pleasure.

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Yesterday I went to visit a dear friend of mine who is now suffering with stage 4 emphysema.We had a nice pleasant chat.She used to be the secretary of BENCAD my old Breathe Easy group and everybody loves her.

Over the last twelve months I have taken her to and visited in hospital many times.Taken her shopping and had her aroud to mine for a meal and visited her at home.I often took her to church coffee mornings and to BE Nottingham meetings.Her husband,her carer,phones everyday to let me know of her wellbeing.

Unfortunately today she did not recognise me.

I feel so helpless and sad

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chellshock

I'm sorry to hear about your friend and your breathing. Its nit a nice time for at the moment, but we are all here for you. Hugs x

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to chellshock

I felt your big bear hug, Ta

KOTC xxx

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twinks1954 in reply to KingoftheCocktails

Nothing to say but sure as hell giving you a big hug xxxx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to twinks1954

Thanks twinks, it felt lovely xxx

I'm so sorry about your friend richard, it must have been a shock for you. I remember the day I went to see my Nan who helped raise me, and she did not know me. Take time remembering all the happier memories. You sound a good friend to her. It is a horrible thing that happened to the man you bought your home from too. Chell is right, we are all here for you.

Anna xxx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to

Yesterday we had a lovely chat and then today! What can I say. I will keep going to see her.

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appyalison

Oh, king, so sad for you. Sorry you have so much to bear at the moment. You will need lots of hugs from us and badger. Hugs on their way xxxx Alison

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to appyalison

Thank you Alison, Badger is the best.

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hufferpuffer

Hello Richard, it is very sad about your dear friend,and the man you bought your house off,I'm sorry your breathing is not as good as it could be,mine is troublesome lately as well,sometimes stress can make things worse,sending big cuddles to you,sweet dreams hope everything will feel better tomorrow xxxxx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to hufferpuffer

Thank you. I had a good nights sleep and feel better for it

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scrobbitty

Not the best of news on three fronts there, Richard. Can you squeeze in another hug? :) xx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to scrobbitty

From you scrobbity, definitely

And more hugs from me Richard. Sometimes life is ....

Bev x

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to

A bitch,yep

Another hug,from me too! What a day you had,may tomorrow be more uplifting.

That would have been upsetting re; your friend,but maybe next time,it might be a better day for her,so don't give up.Im sure her husband/carer,would be grateful of the support as well.

Fancy reading about the person you bought your property from,would have given you a jolt I imagine!

Do hope you will feel better,after a good nights sleep,it is morning here,but hopefully you are tucked up with Badger,enjoying a few zzzz! Bless him.

Wishing you a better day,

Love Wendells xxxx

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Mocarey in reply to

Sorry life is so hard at the mo. I've never sent anyone from the site a hug before, maybe you would accept one from an old lady. M

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to

Thanks Wendell. Badger is my carer!

Hoping you have a much better day today. Your friend is lucky to have your support. Know you will bounce back with all the support you have on here. x Joyce

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to

Sun is shining today,a brighter side to life

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Toci

I hope you are feeling better Your Majesty. xx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to Toci

Toci, you will be presented with your award at Buck house in the near future

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newlands

Do hope you have a better day today take care Dorothyxx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to newlands

Thank you Dorothy,all seems brighter today

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Bliss2

Oh I'm so sorry about your friend another hug from me xx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to Bliss2

You are all such good friends with all these hugs and kisses

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sassy59

Thinking of you today KOTC and hoping you are feeling better. So sorry and sad to hear about your dear friend. You are a great friend and can only offer your support and friendship which is a great gift indeed. Take care. xxxxxxxx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to sassy59

Thank you sassy59.My friend was admitted back in to hospital at 3 am. It is now 9pm and she has slept right through. Even the paramedics could not wake her

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phillips1

Hi Richard. I delayed replying to your post because I really didn't know what to say. It's terrible having a family member or close friend in trouble and there is damn all you can do about it. All I can say is keep your chin up and try to get yourself fit again so you can cope.

Best wishes from

Bobby

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to phillips1

I'm ok now Bobby.Thank you

Hey King, you can't be ill, we need you to do the jokes........................

Know just how you feel about your friend, my Dad died of COPD and mum of Cancer, not nice to watch, my best friend has only weeks to live from lung cancer, taking her out on Wednesday with our other friends, as a goodbye, I suppose.

But we have to keep positive for our friends.

Glad your feeling better today, hopefully by Monday you will be back to normal.

Hugs from me too............................

Peta

xx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to

Thank you Peta

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undine

Big hug and sloppy kiss for you xx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to undine

I loved them

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sassy59

Thinking of you and your dear friend Kingy. Lots of love. xxxxx

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KingoftheCocktails in reply to sassy59

She is in hospital drugged up with morphine, but is receiving the best of care.Thanks sassy59

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