Memory loss, meltdowns, hearing, maybe information processing

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I've concerns ref my husband ref my title above.He passed a doc memory test 2years back but...

Is moody, angry, stressed. Won't go to docs.

Relationship collapsed because communication is so hard. Is slightly deaf.....does not hear often even with his hearing aid.

He is my 'carer'. Even our meals are a mess because he shops,'cooks'.

I have chronic pain, not well controlled, Fibro etc.

Anyone have any ideas ?

Thanks for reading.