My friend states she is losing her memory, and she is correct. I encouraged her to tell her primary care doctor, but she changes the subject. She has told her adult children, but ignores their suggestion that she move near them. I have told her that it is correct that she is losing her memory and I hope her high intelligence and good sense of organization will compensate for the loss a little. We are both 85 years old and live in an independent living facility that offers no medical care, but does have visiting nurse practitioner.