I made a post about taking a vacation several weeks ago. What I should have said is that I am considering stopping ADT at 18 months. Tall_Allen gave a fantastic explanation of the stop/start challenges and I have read through some of Allen's website but I am still not clear on the timeline for ADT.
Here's the quick timeline:
5/2021 - PSA 15.2 (first PSA test I ever had. I was 53)
9/2021 - RALP (PSA 16.3/ 4+3/ PNI/ EPE/ SVI/ T5 @ bladder neck/ 33 lymph nodes clear)
4/2022 - BCR
6/2022 - PSMA PET showed single deep right obturator lymph node
7 - 8/2022 - 33 rounds of EBRT and Lupron
7/2023 was my 3rd ADT shot so that will take me through 01/24 or 18 months. I have taken abiraterone for 6 months of 4/250 and my MO cut that back to 1/250 a day when I said that I wanted to consider stopping ADT. I did take a uPSA test in July and the treatment must be working as hoped as my PSA was < .006.
The challenge that I face is that my MO is retiring in Oct. 2023 and he just does not engage to have any meaningful discussions around the best timeline given my disease history. I appreciate all of the input from this group as it gives me things to consider when charting the best course of action. So does the current data show 12, 18, 24 or 36 months of Lupron and abiraterone?
I FXXXING hate ADT with a passion with the loss of muscle & strength, joint and muscle pain, fatigue, sadness and of course the loss of libido and the atrophy and mess that follows. I have a hot & amazing girlfriend who has been phenomenal through this journey with me. PCa started only six weeks into the relationship so we had maybe 4+ months of a fun and spontaneous sex life before surgery. And then just 8 months after surgery things went down hill again with a BCR that turned into EBRT and lupron and abiraterone. Needless to say the loss of the sex life as I knew it at 53 years old has been the hugest challenge emotionally besides having the PCa. I have shed numerous tears around this. I have some cialis and a pump to try to keep things alive but things are meager in that department.
In addition I am very concerned about the cardiovascular issues with ADT as I have family history with that, but I have never had any issues with my health until FXXXING PCa. I try to stay active and healthy the best I can with cycling and hiking.
Thanks again to all of you and your insight and feedback!