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This song by Boyz II Men really go to me

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For all my fellow PCa endurers and their friends and families

youtube.com/watch?v=rKberxM...

Yesterday by Boyz II Men

yesterday ...all my troubles seemed so far away...

suddenly I am not half the man I used to be...

yesterday came suddenly...

now there's a shadow hanging over me...

I find it to be very cathartic.

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Scout4answers

Originally by Sir Paul McCartney.

Very apropos

I have been feeling some blues lately, out of the blue. I have been cruising along in High Gear for 21 months on ADT+ and ran into some emotional turmoil recently.

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Kaliber in reply to Scout4answers

me too buddy, this is rough stuff …. aPCa …. Add in the bad death news and damaging effects of long term adt medication use ( and especially opiates if you use those ) , …..tharze bound to be some lows to accompany the highs . It’s the nature of this game , it’s human nature. and …. things can get even worse / compound on top of all that too … “ thickening the soup “ so to speak. Just one more heaping helping of crap ….piled on our plates of cancer. You gotta love it …. Yayahahahaya ima still waiting for the part where the upswing comes into play ….. kinda don’t think it’s coming brother.

Just say’in

❤️❤️❤️

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

PCa and ADT it's a d*mn emotional roller coaster - the mind goes crazy with the "what ifs" and then there's the scanxiety awaiting results

I ain't gonna eat that sh*t sandwich

Maybe this will help: youtu.be/p7GV3O6xZDA

Luv ya Bruddah Kal

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CAMPSOUPS in reply to Scout4answers

Yea kinda same here. Blue but dont know really where its coming from. Find my mind repeating the phrase lost soul. Otherwise I was (am?) doing pretty good the last few months.

Maybe a emotional let down. I was riding high a couple weeks ago when 2 classmates came all the way to see me. One from Virginia and one from Colorado. Fantastic time together for a couple days. I told them with my impending end this trip they made will be fresh on my mind as a true bucket list special memory. Glad to have had the experience before I leave.

youtube.com/watch?v=kvLVSPP...

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dockam in reply to CAMPSOUPS

Oh cr*p, sorry about your Blues, but so glad that you had a great time with your classmates. Yea, maybe a letdown after that high, but you got this man and you ain't leaving - you got a bucket list to do!!!

youtu.be/uZUJbwE8Kqk

Luv ya Brother

Be well

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dockam in reply to Scout4answers

Dang it, sorry to hear about your Blues :-(

Maybe this'll will help a lil

youtu.be/606Fo0yH9vw

Take care my Brother - luv ya man

Much Aloha to you two💙

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dockam

Yes, certainly cathartic, this song is on my Funeral service listyoutu.be/UXxRyNvTPr8

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Derf4223 in reply to dockam

Excellent choice.

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dockam

"I'm going off the rails on a Crazy Train" youtu.be/bwDpAfFzcRQ

Oh, yikes, yea "sideways" is hopefully not gonna happen but I'm like only 2 hrs from you Bruddah Kal, dunno what my scrawny lil body could help with as far something physically, but I can help other ways

Luv ya right back atcha

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j-o-h-n

Here's mine (grab a partner and dance):

google.com/search?gs_ssp=eJ...

With a special invitation to the population of Canada, a/k/a as Wayupperus.....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Saturday 07/08/2023 2:52 PM DST

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garyjp9 in reply to j-o-h-n

This brought down the trattoria.

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j-o-h-n in reply to garyjp9

Funie... but I'ma da boss....I make-a da jokes.....

So faccia brut, You tak-a my space.... I break-a you face........Ciao Bambino ciao......

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Saturday 07/08/2023 11:00 PM DST

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fast_eddie

OK, but my preference will always be with the original -- the Beatles version. At first listen I thought that might have been Pentatonix singing.

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