My Heart is Breaking

[justbreathe21]

I am the wife of Ray Trevitt. He and I both have been using this site for the past four years to both comment about treatments and gain advice from informational posts from others. Sadly, Ray is in hospice now and we are cherishing every moment he has left of his life. After being married to the love of my life for 48 years, it breaks my heart to know he has such little time left. He was not only courageous in the face of his battle with aggressive PCa, but also maintained his sense of humor and wicked intelligence. Lastly, I wish to thank you all for the help along the way. I know Ray really appreciated this site as a source of information and at times light-hearted humor. Stay strong men and continue to fight the good fight. I know personally the fight is worthwhile. Ray is one amazing man who lived life to the fullest even during the 5 years he lived with PCa. A proud father, cherished grandfather, and the most loving and generous husband I was fortunate enough to have make Ray a dear beloved man to our family.

[Longterm101]

God bless ray and your family

[LearnAll]

48 years together creates a very strong bond of attachment. .You stayed with Ray like a rock in last 5 difficult years . This is time to start detaching and allow his soul a peaceful passage to the other dimension. Its going to be hard.. and it will hurt...But we, human beings are so weak when it comes to life and death. Wishing you strength and peace in these very difficult times of your life.

[SPEEDYX]

Treasure all your memories...May God bless you until our path leads us to eternal Glory!!!!

[Darryl Partner]

We are thinking of you, Ray and your family.

[16starsky]

Sending prayers and hugs to you both, God Bless.

[garyi]

You and Ray had a wonderful life. Just breath...it will get better!

[MrDon2]

After some 48+ years together, look back on the life you both shared as one. Remember the good times, the funny situations and laughs you both enjoyed and shared. Bless you and Ray. We are thinking of you and Ray during these hard times and prayers to the both.

[Kaliber]

So sorry to hear about Ray ... I’m sending out a big fuzzy warm hug to the both of you.

Best wishes 🌸🌻🦋🌼🌈❤️❤️❤️

[dockam]

Oh dear, May his passing be very peaceful and with loving family there with him. Thoughts and prayers for Ray, you and the rest of his loved onesHugs

Randy

[MCDaisy1972]

You were blessed to have each other.

[spouse21]

Thank you for sharing your experience and Ray's at such a difficult time. It helps us all. I agree with you that this site is so supportive and informative. There's no comparable place to go while our guys deal with so much. I'm sorry your wonderful husband is coming to the end. I wish you both a peaceful journey after a way-too-short fight against this terrible disease.

[MateoBeach]

Godspeed Ray. And loving support to you.

[ron_bucher]

Sorry you were robbed of time. Good to have wonderful memories of the loves of our lives. Peace be with you both and your family and friends.

[Ladysingstheblues]

I’m so very sorry. My husband battled for 8 years and lost him to this horrific disease 11 months ago. I knew him since I was 16 years old. My life is forever change. If you need to talk send me a message. I can help you❤️

[Concerned-wife]

My heart is hurting for you both.

[4girls]

Im sorry, praying for a peaceful pilgrimage as well, for strength and comfort.

[Jackpine]

Find strength in Rays strength and feel the peace and love of God.

[lookingforamiracle]

Man, this a tough club to be in, but what an honor to be with you all.