Failed embie transfer

Hi All...didn't want to write about my experience as worried I'd jinx our 2nd IVF cycle...but hey...our one & only embie didn't make it to the 2WW. This time my DH & I only kept it to ourselves as my 1st cycle was so dramatic I went off work for 2 weeks as cried non stop. I'm 42 & the feel I've no purpose in life...sorry for my sad post. 2nd cycle only completed 12 days ago....

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Oh, I'm so sorry. How dreadfully sad for you all. But please don't lose heart - my husband's niece had endless rounds of IVF, as many as you d can have in the NHS, and then some - and finally, finally managed to give a healthy son. And a year later an equally healthy daughter came along, quite naturally this time. So don't despair. Grieve, of course, for the person wise life ended before it started, but don't despair!💔

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Thank you mrsredboots for your lovely encouragement. Yes, will be grieving for some time in silence as my work colleagues have no clue. I feel there is hope in the end xx

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There is a very good site on here fertility net work uk, so sorry for all you have gone through, some people are so lucky to be able to get pregnant without help, my daughter has been having IVF treatment awful and can be heart breaking, my thoughts and best wishes are with you

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Thanks daisyd xxx This network is a huge support indeed. Some people don't have a clue what we're going through & I'm happy to have found this website very helpful.