Boardering on Anorexia...

[jloo]

Or so this is what my Dr says.

Hi, this is my first post so not really sure what I’m supposed to do or say....I’ve been struggling for around 9 months and my husband finally talked me in to going to the Dr. She has referred me to an ED specialist. It was a bit of a shock when she said I was suffering from Anorexia, don’t get me wrong I knew I had a problem but now it’s in the open I just wish it wasn’t. I feel like it was just easier before anyone knew. Does that sound silly?

[Agora1]

Hi jloo, Nothing ever sounds silly that makes an impact on our lives. There is no one here to judge you in what you say or do. You've found a safe place to talk about your issues among kind and caring individuals who are struggling as well.

It's very common for us to know there is a problem before anyone else figures it out. I'm glad your husband loves you enough to not look the other way and encourage you to get help. I think we are all like this when it comes to actually hearing a diagnosis. Until that time, we can pretend that we are over reacting. It doesn't label you, it's a diagnosis just as any other health issue.

I wish you luck with your appointment with the ED specialist. (I only wish my daughter would admit to a problem) Let us know how you do. Remember you need to take care of yourself before you can take care of anyone else. My best to you jloo. xx

[jloo in reply to Agora1]

Thank you. It’s nice to have people that understand, it’s much appreciated x

[crazycrossstitcher]

Not silly at all - labelling your problem somehow makes it more real - and also your confronting the issue rather than letting it tick like a time bomb in the background. Glad you've got a referral - you are one of the lucky ones - so many don't have such understanding GPs. EDs also have a way of controlling your mind - so be aware that it will be a hard battle - the ED trying to persuade you that all is well when it clearly is not. So take courage - and if you are able to share your feelings with your husband - take the opportunity - even if he doesn't understand - just having support really does help.

[jloo]

Thanks very much x