Also posted this on another forum:
So I've had quite a lot of trouble recently. Went to the doctor and he thought I had prostatitis or something similar. Weird because there were no bacteria found in my urine. Now I've had a lot of complaints such as: Pain in groin, weird pain in glans penis, pain in lower back, hip, pain with urinating etc.
I went to a pelvic floor muscle physiotherapist (don't actually the right word for that in English) and she came to the conclusion I have a hypertonic pelvic floor. So that explains most pains.
Now I'm going to start this Monday with exercises. But also since a week I have less feeling when I have an orgasm. The feeling is just way less, it's declined and the orgasm also lasts way shorter. It's just not the climax anymore that I always had.
My question is: is this also related to the hypertonic pelvic floor muscles? I can't actually find anything about this weird problem. Some sites vaguely refer to this problem as "likely" to occur because of this problem. Or might it be because I just masturbate a little to much (daily)? Or because of stress/anxiety (I have been really stressed and kinda depressed with these problems because I didn't know what it could be)?
I'm 23, virgin and that's why I'm the most concerned about this. If it stays like this I might as well give up on finding a girl, because why should I have sex if it doesn't even feel "rewarding".. I know a relationship is't all about sex, but it's a big deal for me since I'm a 23 year old virgin.
Anyway, I hope someone can help me out with this. If it's because of the hypertonic pelvic floor, it'll explain a lot, but as I said: I can't quite find anything about this. Only people that have lost the orgasm feeling completely, but that's not the case with me and I hope it doesn't go that way.
Thanks in advance.
