Penis size

[MensHealthRN]

I know that all guys want bigger penises. But are any of you are seriously preoccupied with penis size? I'm just curious if anyone else seriously deals with this insecurity, and is there anything you've done to make yourself feel better about it?

[Daz81]

I'm a chubby guy with a small cock. Around 5" hard but sod all soft. I've lacked confidence all my life about it until recently.

Then someone made me realise sod it, you've got what youve got and there's nothing really you can do about it.

So just enjoy what you've got.

[MensHealthRN in reply to Daz81]

Thanks man. How did that person make you come to the realization and make you feel better about it? Has you cock always been smaller or did it get smaller the more weight you put on?

[Daz81 in reply to MensHealthRN]

I've been big all my like. I've actually Lost 7 stone but still have around another 4 to go. I've learnt to love mine now even though it's only 5" hard. It seems slightly bigger the more weight you lose and certainly looks bigger and better since the circumcision.

The person stripped me slowly, played with my nipples, stroked my body slowly and constantly told me how beautiful I was. Made me feel special and gave my confidence a real boost.

They then gave me an awesome bj which may have helped relax me too! Lol

[Clutonny]

You shouldnt be insecure about that. Its your thing. I was feeling insecured before about some problems with my ding dong but as soon as i got it fixed it looks so good. Never be insecure about your thing. In bed if you know what you are doing, you can basically drive women crazy with the smallest salami.

[MensHealthRN in reply to Clutonny]

Thanks. Do you have a smaller penis? Not sure what you meant when you said you got it fixed and now it looks good.

[Clutonny in reply to MensHealthRN]

No I had phymosis. You cant increase the size of the penis. It only increases while in not erected state, but when it is erected there is no difference and the surgery is very bad. I have heard that some men even lose their ding dongs. I am circumcised and its the best thing i ever decided to do. And if you think your thing is small look at it with a mirror from the front because when you look something that underneath you it always looks small. If you are going to ask me about that thing its 15 cm.

[metalminded]

Hello. This is an issue I'm very insecure about and have very low self-esteem because of. Even though I've been married for 12 years. My wife is the only woman I've been with and the only woman to see my penis, besides doctors, nurses, etc. Thankfully, the first time we were intimate, she never said anything about it or gave me any non-verbal cues that would indicate she thought it was small. Even with all of that, I'm still very bothered by it. I feel like I'm the smallest guy around and every guy I'm around is so much larger. I see a psychologist and have talked about it with her as well. I get the same from her as I do from my wife that I shouldn't worry about it. My psychologist said I should be fine with what I have and no reason not to be. I sometimes don't even believe my wife when she tells me that it's fine and she completely enjoys it.

I've been on other sites talking about this subject and sites where pictures (non-sexual) are posted. I almost get more upset with the other guys because I'd love to have what they call "small" penises. I'm only about 4" erect, I never measured thickness, but I do thicken lower towards the base, but not even as thick as I've seen posted.

In my case, I really am small.

[Clutonny in reply to metalminded]

I have exactly the same psychology as you. Its not small. Every ding dong is unique and you shouldnt be bothered about it. Its not how big it is, its how you use it. You shouldnt have low self-esteem because of that.

[metalminded in reply to Clutonny]

I wish that was true. I realize all guys are different, but when you are easily smaller than average how do you get over that? If I was in a roomful of men, I'd bet I'd be the smallest, that how my thoughts are.

[metalminded in reply to Clutonny]

If you're is 15cm, that's almost 6 inches. I'd be happy with that, even 5 inches would be great. I feel like I don't look like a man.

[Clutonny in reply to metalminded]

Everyone is unique. Dont worry about your size. Its okay.

[metalminded in reply to Clutonny]

Easier said than done

[Vitruviusman]

before before the operation I was 7.5" long, 6" thick, nice size and thickness. After the operation it was reduced to 6 inch long and the girth ls half the size. Not happy

[MensHealthRN in reply to Vitruviusman]

What operation are you referring to?

[Vitruviusman in reply to MensHealthRN]

PROSTATE REMOVAL. I have not had a date in over 5 years. As mentioned before the surgery I was 7.5 " long x 6" thick . After the operation the girth was reduced and the length was 6" quite a bit of a size reduction... and I cannot get hard.. sex love is over trying to get a date, once they find out..

[Ire_cali]

Honestly I think every man is somewhat insecure about penis size to a degree. I've been told I have good size but still wish it was bigger lol. I still feel insecure quite often.

[Hidden in reply to Ire_cali]

Totally

[Pisarczyk]

Older gentleman. Would it be alright if I emailed you about this. I am Richard. Thankyou

[metalminded]

Thank you Bob

[Daz81]

I know that mate. I do have lots of pleasure with it!

[willboh]

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[Vitruviusman]

My friend had the implant done. He showed me the after results. His cock was shortened by a half inch to inch , and it was not very attractive..3rd nut in your scrotum and having to pump the thing up like an old tire.. In addition having to make an incision above your cock and imput that 4 parts of this thing. Not romantic at all

[Gresley]

I have mild incontinence and a nurse came to fit me up with a urinary sheath. Now I've always felt I was a little on the small size but when she measured my penis it turned out I was bigger than average. That made me feel good