Leaving for a while

I wont be commenting on here for a while.

[Scottie99]

Sorry to hear that. I hope everything is ok with you.

[Rish]

Take care Elisse hope all is ok x

[popmaster]

Hi Elisse, as Rish said hope your OK???

[Rubylane25]

Take care and good luck

[ookla]

Please don't leave. I had the same reaction. But we're a small group and having a support structure is important. There aren't a lot of people who can understand what you're going through. It's like family. It's ok to have a tussle every now and then, it'll blow over.

[Kaarina Administrator]

That is a great shame. This forum will be a lesser place without you. Please return soon.

Gentle hugs

[Hidden]

Ok, i wasnt going to give a reason for not taking part on this forum for a while, but decided this morning i will.

I have been with this forum from the beginning, in fact before this group was formed, i was with the RLS-UK's other group, which got shut down and this one was started. I was the first one to sign up, i believe.

It was a lighthearted group, but now, its like walking on egg shells, i n case you say something which upsets someone, or they dont like what you said, or your opinion is not allowed.

I am not leaving completely, i just need some time out from this forum, to save my sanity.

I hope i have helped a few people along the way.

Elisse.

[nightdancer in reply to Hidden]

There is a lot of misinterpretation around here, and I am also taking a long break as Elisse is. Just because everyone does not agree, and 964 members are not ever going to agree. I know from experience that you ah veto let people express their opinions. maybe it is different in the US and where my groups are based, but except for politics and religion, "lively" discussions are encouraged because I do want to know all sides of a thing, whatever it is. So, do your homework, guys and girls, get reputable information, and I will post this most helpful web site one more time. rlshelp.org...treatment page, and on that page," List of Drugs And Foods to Avoid". I believe the truth should always be told. Always. So, I am off on an unlocked vacation. have a good summer!

[Peterpillpopper]

Elisse. I have always found your advice and your support wonderful. I fully understand if you want a time out from this forum because there are people like myself who will sometimes be in a state of mind that is volatile and misinterperates help and advice. Please come back to us soon as you are one of the people that are the backbone of this invaluable forum. Thank you Elisse for being there for me you have certainly made apositive difference to my life even if it is when i read your support for other peoples problems. With love from PPP X

[insect]

All Forums go through ups and downs. The written word is static - no neuances {sp} as we can't see facial reactions etc. and don't get the opportunity of instant answers, support, suggestions etc.. I am on 4 different Forums currently, all of which have gone through irritations because people when seeking advice and support are often vulnerable.

Sharing experiences can help in any field that we happen across. One needs to step back and take account of how we feel right now, whether the suggestions are suitable for our situations and if they help/not, report back so that others can be heartened that sometimes 'things' work/not.

[Hidden]

Dearest Ellise

I always considered you as a good and sympathetic friend. You and nightdancer were very informative and kind to others, I ,ll miss you and I hope and wish you happiness.

[blacknwhitecat]

My dearest Ellise,

I only wander down this corridor & pop my head round the door once in a while, as my need is not great, I am SO lucky to say.

BUT when you are constantly in one room talking & arguing about one subject, that affects you greatly, I can understand the need to get out & wander away for a while !

AH! how I wish I could lead you into my room, that I live in now....it is a happy room, with family, pets, cooking, gardening.....all the things I missed SO badly in the "OTHER ROOM".

A room where I was all alone, frightened & beset by govnt, who wouldn't let me go home to my family in the US ! (long story!)

My very best wishes go with you...may the bird of paradise fly up your nose, may an elephant caress you with his toes.........AND may the AWFUL affliction RLS suddenly just magically disappear....................much love........Black'n'white'cat

[kikas]

You have helped a lot, if someone doesn't agree its their problem. I really hope you stay or dont take a long break...we need you. I dont post or coment very often but everyday I read the post and coments.. hope you are okay xx

[Raphael]

i find this all so very sad. Like some of you I don,t alwayus make comment but always read what is being spoken. I said it before and will say it again. I thought this FORUM was supposed to be a place of safety and friends to talk to. Whoever is taking a break I wish you well and hope you will reconsider or make your break short. We have enough in our lives living with RLS. Whoever has played a part in this of upsetting people I hope you feel; ashamed of yourselves.,

Raphael

[patchworker]

Dear Ellise,

I understand you're upset about something but I can't work out what it is. I do hope it's nothing I've done. I'm old and not very bright, but I do know you're important to this forum, you're part of it, we need you. Please come back soon.

[Hidden]

The community here will miss you dearly, I included.

Pop in once in awhile and let us know how you are doing.

Best Wishes!

Karen

[glamourcat]

I wish you wouldn't leave as I have always seen that you and Nightdancer and a few others are always the first to help anybody. You are a very special and valuable member of this forum and I am sure that we would be lost without your knowledge and wisdom. If someone has upset you just try to ignore it, we all care and value you so much. Please have a break by all means but don't leave as we really do need and value all your help. Thank you for all you have done for us.

[dangermouse in reply to glamourcat]

I'm echoing everything that glamourcat said above. It's a great shame that two dedicated and knowledgeable folk are forced to leave the forum because of posters' attitudes.

Please come back soon, both of you, in the knowledge that you are both very much appreciated.

Take Care, Pat.

[gypsy49]

have a nice break

[cumoneileen]

hope to hear from you soon. Best wishes. take care.

[Willie416]

I am new here, joined a couple weeks ago, but this blog makes me sad. I have been reading posts, and all I see is that Elisse and Nightdancer really are trying to help us with their obvious experience, so it is a loss for this group. I gather they both of years of group experience, and have helped lots of people, so I do hope they are around soon again! Their information can always be backed up with the links they send in, and just reading their stuff, I know they know more than I do. So, I say thanks, and I hope they come back soon.