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So I am happily 5 weeks 5 days pregnant its my first pregnancy and I do argue a lot no fighting just mood swings and my husband lets me throw punches but I am way early in pregnancy yes am a meanie but I love children just the other day at 5 weeks 4 day I got on roller coaster ride I told my husband he was pissed so we argued I did a lotta of mood swings but I can still eat no pivot changes too my cycle I haven't bleed nor any discharge but I use restroom frequently and eat healthy I am 25 he's 24 I just want too know will baby still be fine after all this arguing and fussing and mood swings..I do have stress issues when he talks 😆 but thats anyone

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Doctors told me nothing too see at moment on ultrasound so they said wait 7 weeks

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Twiglet2

I would be more worried about the rollercoaster than the arguing harming the baby. Pregnancy is a precious precious gift and not something to mess around with they say dont go on a rollercoaster during pregnancy for a reason. Pregnancy isn’t an an excuse to be ‘a meanie’ it can be a reason your hormones cause you to feel a bit out of control sometimes on how you might react to a situation but you are still an adult fully responsible for your own actions. arguing is never good for a relationship especially one you are about to bring a baby into. Pregnancy is going to get much much much harder than it is right now so you might want to talk to someone professional about your aggression towards your husband as it’s not fair to just assume he will ‘take the punches’

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Seb9

It's a worry that your husband is letting you throw punches, physical violence is never acceptable. If you're struggling to contain you anger, I would seriously recommend counselling or therapy. Having a child is a really difficult thing and if you're struggling with your emotions now, it can get even harder when you're tired and there's a baby involved.Stress and arguments might not have an effect on baby now, but you will be raising a new human in a few months, and arguing and violence isn't the right environment for a child to be in, so I would get help now before baby arrives.

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StarsAllAround

Your post reads like your husband is in a domestic abuse relationship. Please seek help now as being physically or emotionally abusive to your husband is not the right environment to bring a child onto. If you can't control your emotions now its going to be a lot worse when you have a new born and are not getting any sleep. Please please speak to a GP or your midwife explain how your not coping with mood swings and ask for counselling or therapy. Also I'm not surprised your husband got mad about you getting on a roller costa as that is very irresponsible there is a reason you are not supposed to do things like that when pregnant.

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