Guy 1 or Guy 2. Opinions Needed.

[Peace43]

So. I had sex with guy 1 on April 18th 2am. Then sex with Guy 2 on April 25th12am and 2am, 29th, May 1st May 3rd. Conception Date 27th April - Doctor says. On June 7th Doc said I'm 8 weeks Crown Rump 1.6cm

June 12th Doc says 8w4d Crown Rump 2.04cm. Since the beginning of January I've been irregular.. cycle would come late but it would come.. like it shifted foward days at times.. my last cycle. . Not sure if it was end of march or in april. Also took pregnancy test on April 23rd and 27th. Both said Not pregnant. So which guy is most likely to have gotten me pregnant?

[firesprite85]

13th of April is 8 weeks and 4 days before the 12th of June so it works out as before your dates start huni xxx

[Peace43 in reply to firesprite85]

Thanks for your input.. I have ready that weeks are counted like.. June 12th starts the 8th Week.. and then June 15th starts the 9th week.

[firesprite85 in reply to Peace43]

Yes but that still goes back to April 13th. When was the date of your last period? Unfortunately the only way to fully determine the father would be by doing a paternity test.

[Kaza44]

Yeah the only real way of knowing is DNA test especially since the two men in question were so close together a lot of pregnancy calculations are estimates everyone is different. For example look at the time implantation can take to occur it can take 7-10 days. My fertile days always occur later than a predictor will estimate looks like you'll have to tell both men. Good luck hope all turns out ok

[Peace43 in reply to Kaza44]

Thanks I'm sure it will!

[fairywomble2]

With the dates you slept with the two men being so close together there is no way of telling for sure without a paternity test who is the father, as sperm can live inside your womb to fertilise an egg for up to 7 days. X

[Peace43 in reply to fairywomble2]

Thx.

[Fionalcarney]

Yes, working the dates back take you to 12/13 April, but the way they date pregnancies is to the first day of the last period (because it's easier to know reliably than when you ovulated), ovulation would be approximately 2 weeks after this, so pregnancies are actually only 38 weeks long, not 40. Adding the 2 weeks back on would mean ovulation and conception on 27th April like your doctor suggested. Given sperm can survive for up to 5 days, the dates suggest that it can't be guy 1 as it's too long from 18th to 27th, but it's totally possible for it to be guy 2's from the 25th.

The negative pregnancy tests don't really tell you much as even if it was one of the super early detecting ones it's probably only going to pick it up from 9 days from conception at the absolute earliest, so taking the 5 days that sperm can survive, they don't rule out guy 1, but like I say, the dates seem to suggest guy 2.

[Peace43 in reply to Fionalcarney]

Thanks for your feed back! Good insight

[EM24]

You can only tell with a DNA test. Pregnancy doesn't work as easily as you definetpy got pregnant on X date. They calculate your pregnancy from the first day of your last pregnancy. Meaning they're is a four week window in which you actually conceived

[Peace43 in reply to EM24]

Thanks for the feed back!

[roxannacar]

As everyone else said they only way to know is via DNA test ... probability is second guy BUT this isn't about playing with probability but knowing for certain. Oh and I wouldnt same the guy didn't got you pregnant ... you did that together.

[Peace43 in reply to roxannacar]

I agree! Thanks a lot! TEST WILL BE DONE.,