Aftrer 7.7mm...the results...

[Haroumeni]

Hi ladies ..i had yesterday in special hospital two sacans .

The results very bad..abnormal head,heard problems. ..

I had interior scan..cried. .

13 or 18 trisomy. .

And begin to find apt for ending this pregnancy.

By marie stop ..

I love children i have my son ,in summer i had miscarriage and now happen that..

Im 38 maybe my age can help me . I don't know.

Im sorry ladies bud happen to me and i share with you, i feel better. .

[Hidden]

Gosh, I'm very sorry to hear your news, this must be incredibly difficult for you all. At times like this it must be very hard to understand why such bad things happen however, I think it is important to remember that these things have absolutely no rhyme or reason and you have been very unfortunate.

I can't imagine how you must feel but the only advice I can offer is to try and take pleasure in your son and remember to be kind to yourself. There is no logic to these events and you will have had no control in what's has happened. Give yourself time to rest and be patient, it will take time to feel better but you will xxxxx

On a separate note, maybe ask the Drs if there are any support groups or counsellors you could consider if you feel it may help.

[Haroumeni in reply to Hidden]

Today at 9 o clock i have to go to the hospital private for the "treatment "surgery".

Up to 2500 pounds pecause i would like as soon as possible. (Money for the doctor ,hospital,and money to take genetic from placenta to let us know information if we will try again for new pregnancy.

I can wait 1 week with nhs.

I feel strong i don't have other choice.

Yesterday 4 scan baby no skin and more fluid buck and all the head...and abnormal shape of head and more .... more...

That's it...

Please wish me for today ,i will have general anasthetic.

Will take 30 -40 minutes bud i have to go earlier for prepare and some exams.

Kisses to everyone and hags.

I m sorry. .

[jayne140]

So sorry to hear your news. So sad for you and can't imagine how devastated you must feel. Ask your Dr/hospital all the questions you need and find out if there are any support groups near you. Enjoy spending lots of time with your son .... he needs you and you need him. Take time to look after yourself and accept help from family and friends x

Sending a hug x

[Zahara]

I cannot imagine how you and your husband must feel. Sending you all my live and God's grace as you go through this process.

Just like the others have said, do well to ask your specialist for support groups, it does help to meet others that are going through something similar xx

[Haroumeni]

Thank you for your reply.

I m normal kilos ,never smoking, no alcohol during pregnancy less coffee chocolate and happen .

[Ronnie12]

Caring thoughts go to you and your family x

[mrsamy]

Stay strong my dear. No one knows why these things happen. Hope you don't blame yourself. Take care of you and your family. Don't forget to include your husband because he might not want to show his emotions. You'll be in my prayers.

[Valevale]

Dear Eirinaki,

I'm so sorry to hear what's happening to you and there are no words that can make it better, unfortunately.

I hope the operation goes as smoothly as it possibly can and the same goes for the genetic testing.

Please let me hug you from afar and even if I don't know you.

V

[Haroumeni in reply to Valevale]

Thank you for your message.

Im trying to believe the new situation. ..

[Valevale in reply to Haroumeni]

I trust your operation went well Eirinaki and I keep my fingers crossed for your test. Keep us posted.

[Hopeful1982]

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Take care of yourself x

[Ronnie12]

I hope u are ok - and that u are getting tlc and hugs x

[Haroumeni]

Everything went well. .

i try to focus with reading or anything else to forget that. ..

thank you very much.

hugs to everyone. .

[Hidden in reply to Haroumeni]

Sending you well wishes, time is a great healer xx

[hough]

Sending you well wishes for recovery Eirinaki & warm wishes to your husband, son & families. I mc first pregnancy at 7 weeks Jan 2014 & had my son April 2015. He's 8.5 months now. Good things can happen after sad news, pls don't blame yourselves.