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Is it just me or do OH go weird when your pregnant seems mine begrudges even a cuddle incase I break......

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Millie8

I kno the feeling, I keep getting asked what Ive had 4 lunch @ wk.... As if I'm not capable of feeding myself... Men lol!! X

I don't know what it is either but I must admit I dont mind the extra attention as once baby's out we're left alone again to fend for ourselves. LOL!

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eroxie

Mine is the same, given a chance he would force feed me! And he's always concerned about if I'm squashing the baby ...

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blackmadona

eroxoie you are so funny,at the end of the day they are being caring. let's enjoy it while it last lol... mine is like that as well,treating me like a baby. calls million times to ask if I've eaten or ok. but trust me,we are blessed bcos most women out there do not have anyone who cares or even ask about their wellbeing while pregnant.

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HoratioSparks

I have the same sort of issue my OH seems to avoid me a lot lately, even too "busy" to come to appointments. It is bringing me down actually, he has no interest in anything baby related.

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SaraPeanut

My OH isn't like that at all. Leaves it up to me mainly, probs because he knows I'll bite his head off if he even attempts to feed me lol.

Don't get me wrong, he's exited about the baby and talks to my stomach (even whispering as though they're having a private convo without me!) but he's not as interested in me, the antenatal or my birth plan. My mum's getting more involved than him and it's great to have her support but just wish it was my OH instead x

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yogi

Snap everything comes before me kitten xbox and best mate, but a bonus he had taken time off for our scan this afternoon at 2 o'clock. I think he doesn't know how to be around me due to our 2 previous losses ( both with in a year) x

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